tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29416307856643973342024-03-17T07:16:30.338-05:00My Own Genius HourJoy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.comBlogger557125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-89998653621288730542024-03-17T07:14:00.002-05:002024-03-17T07:14:32.094-05:00My WritingMy blog's name is due to me wanting to share my own learning with others. When I was on Twitter, I would share the link with educators. It got a lot of visits, some comments, some questions, and we kept the conversations going. Sometimes I would write to document what I've learned or to document my thoughts or to document a great or terrible day - mostly about education. "My Own Genius Hour" meant my own learning - about teaching and life - a place to reflect publicly.<div><br /></div><div>I was once again inspired to write by the #SOL - Slice of Life - community when the new year rolled around. I am a huge reader, but I could use the nudge to write. Now that we're more than half-way through <strike>May</strike> (OMG my MIND this past week!!) March, and many #SOL writers are writing <u>every day</u> for the March challenge, I knew I wouldn't keep up. Many (most?) in this community are retired teachers who've been doing the #SOL on Tuesdays for years. It's not my jam right now.</div><div><br /></div><div>So instead, I collected photos of what I wanted to write about for Tuesdays. Stories from my time with Duolingo and how it helps me learn and also frustrates me with its challenges/games/XPs... The flowers popping up way too early... State testing and how it absolutely sucks the life out of everyone...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDQeSCBfn6j0QjRGSYKTdxAZZXHsEsmCw-6PCXYz_6c7LET09oq4fVUDA1nNL5i4P0kle74GfvJfo0FHGDSkYJnRTpbxmHX-v2KhkAwui09tQOMkZABIUZteLvAcmJMGK8V-HpoS9IjSkAlx07nUJn-cbaQ4NE9ew-dszDudRYv7vCXFGqLrVmZLFkMFM/s1170/IMG_0931.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="628" data-original-width="1170" height="173" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDQeSCBfn6j0QjRGSYKTdxAZZXHsEsmCw-6PCXYz_6c7LET09oq4fVUDA1nNL5i4P0kle74GfvJfo0FHGDSkYJnRTpbxmHX-v2KhkAwui09tQOMkZABIUZteLvAcmJMGK8V-HpoS9IjSkAlx07nUJn-cbaQ4NE9ew-dszDudRYv7vCXFGqLrVmZLFkMFM/w320-h173/IMG_0931.jpg" width="320" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_woxrBwrLEP7q5k4c8JqOMGoSntgoUoNZUEu6sW42GEIi8VTnLUPLwbkWYMRNqnRLkKHyz5h81pO_To70OQBtrGOUz7VLHrcPbrfxz6HzyiMxb9OHHUwfVRE5KQDAmKPPQAULDruj1z2q2gjuvaDIIOPJxG103srPrlucmocmbaMbfcGBWVW1KbM5WM4/s4032/IMG_1043.HEIC" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_woxrBwrLEP7q5k4c8JqOMGoSntgoUoNZUEu6sW42GEIi8VTnLUPLwbkWYMRNqnRLkKHyz5h81pO_To70OQBtrGOUz7VLHrcPbrfxz6HzyiMxb9OHHUwfVRE5KQDAmKPPQAULDruj1z2q2gjuvaDIIOPJxG103srPrlucmocmbaMbfcGBWVW1KbM5WM4/w150-h200/IMG_1043.HEIC" width="150" /></a><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>My problem today is that those are not authentic writing for me. I don't want to write just because it's Tuesday or just because others are sharing their writing on Tuesdays. I don't want to take on someone else's challenge - I have enough challenges right now at work and at home. </div><div><br /></div><div>I want to write when it's important to me. Some days I want to write in my gratitude journal. Some days I want to write to my "inner thoughts" (inspired by the book <i>Tiny Beautiful Things</i>) in my "daily chirp" journal. Some days I want to write lists. And some days I want to document things here (like this thinking) or share ideas here (for teachers who are still following this blog even if I can't tweet it out anymore). I may even have a student reading these posts, and I'd like that young writer to know I'm human. :)</div><div><br /></div><div>So today... I suppose I'm writing a goodbye letter of sorts - to the #SOL crew. I won't post it in their comments section, because they've got lots of other great posts they can read through, enjoy, and comment on. This post is to document. This post is for my own reflection. My learning journey - which is what "My Own Genius Hour" means to me.</div><div><br /></div><div>My learning changes throughout the years, thankfully, so I may come back to that community - or find another one - or maybe even an in-person one once I retire. As long as this blog truly represents me as a person, I'll continue using it as one of my writing avenues.</div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-67898598597978702882024-03-01T19:23:00.000-06:002024-03-01T19:23:36.267-06:00EduWins - the Small ThingsJust some snippets from this past week that made me feel like I am where I belong...<div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>I was able to fix a student's bracelet (from Bulgaria?) with just a paperclip and patience.</li><li>I stayed calm all week. I may have raised my voice once, but that's it.</li><li>I let go of some control today, and it was okay.</li><li>My middle class tied my last class for the monthly reward... for about 80 minutes.</li><li>I laughed a lot during classes.</li><li>I got some funny looks for my "Fancy Flannel Friday" look, and I felt proud getting out of my box anyway. (Check TikTok for the look - courtesy of @Bengela|Thrift|Style|DIY.)</li><li>One student made the entire class laugh - in a totally appropriate way and at a totally appropriate time - and then he announced, "I just made the whole class laugh." Twice. 😊</li><li>I opened two thoroughly jammed lockers.</li><li>I got to talk about good adult books with a former TA-now-substitute.</li><li>I kept work at work (even if now I've got some essays to grade)...</li><li>One student (whose anger flares at times) liked that I brought my daily Stoic book in to read, and now asks me to read it every day.</li><li>I handled a class disturbance very calmly in the moment, and then followed through right after class with that student. More follow-up to come - with help from the principal - on Monday.</li><li>I started writing my end-of-the-year notes to students. I'm glad I decided to do it again this year (after skipping last year). It makes me think very highly of each student.</li></ul></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-78614828215301571172024-02-27T05:28:00.001-06:002024-02-27T05:28:00.244-06:00Broken Light Fixtures Shine BrighterI got out of the shower and noticed that the glass in one of our bathroom lights was broken. (I didn't get a photo, but it was jagged and tilted so we threw it out.) I was worried it had happened on its own in the middle of the night while we slept, so I was happy when Hubby said he knocked into it yesterday somehow, but he didn't notice it had broken.<div><br /></div><div>So... we threw out the glass, knowing we'll either find a replacement or replace the entire fixture. No biggie. Just some time and effort. No one is hurt, and the room is a bit brighter.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoY38BMn1ZeBmoJVs_MORVqPBRqQTLoYJ3suCpACaTFmgndPsSyfsoEK_iSqNsWhr46llAamQuovfyc1wtHzqHsu3wBRQKVZTh-6hMl7nL9fvUs9ptthHbQ79y2NrqImG5dOUzVcAbqckZDQfoh1Laypogxp_11VNlLjBcQoAozinWpE_Oe5VPQKhRERU/s4032/IMG_0904.HEIC" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoY38BMn1ZeBmoJVs_MORVqPBRqQTLoYJ3suCpACaTFmgndPsSyfsoEK_iSqNsWhr46llAamQuovfyc1wtHzqHsu3wBRQKVZTh-6hMl7nL9fvUs9ptthHbQ79y2NrqImG5dOUzVcAbqckZDQfoh1Laypogxp_11VNlLjBcQoAozinWpE_Oe5VPQKhRERU/s320/IMG_0904.HEIC" width="320" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>I thought the light would be blinding without the frosted glass, but it's not. It's really nice, actually. I love a lot of light, and I'm glad we've got this while we search for a new one. I immediately thought... I've got an idea for the #SOL this week, as I've seen this before in my life. The broken light shines brighter...</div><div><br /></div><div>Just this past week, when I gave my presentation about shifting away from stress, I shared how "broken" I was during pandemic teaching. How I cried every day during school and every night at home through all of September of 2020, and many days and nights following during that horrendous school year. And I shared that I am much stronger now. I feel that, when I'm able to give my full attention to the people I'm around each day like I've been practicing, my "light" is stronger now.</div><div><br /></div><div>I've jumped on Instagram again recently, and an old Twitter friend from 2014 showed up in my replies. She's been absent from my life for at least eight years. She shared that she'd gotten married and then in 2021 her husband took his life by suicide. I started following her right away, and it looks like now she shares about mental health and strategies to overcome depression. She is no longer quiet and not sharing on Instagram - she's shining brighter. Her light is stronger for all to see.</div><div><br /></div><div>Nobody's life is perfect. We all have our ups and downs / highs and lows. If we stop during the lows to evaluate what is happening and how we're reacting, we can learn from those challenging times. We can grow from them. A former student of mine, Jake Lavin, shared with our school (years later as he shared about his <a href="https://happinessproject.com/blogs/news/meet-the-team-behind-happiness-project-1" target="_blank">Happiness Project</a>) an analogy about a grape... </div><div><br /></div><div>Imagine you're a grape, growing beautifully on the vine, reaching for the sun, ripening right on time, when someone plucks you and some friends off the vine. You get dropped on the ground. It's darker there, but you've still got some old friends with you - until you get stepped on. Now you're really in the dirt, and you look nothing like your old self. No one will want you now. Your life, as you know it, is over. You are pushed down further the more you get stepped on. Eventually, you're covered with dirt, fall leaves and debris, snow over that, and you're really in a dark, wet, nasty place. You never see the sun anymore. You never feel the wind or the rain. You're there for months, thinking life couldn't get any worse. When suddenly... you begin to sprout new life. You eventually become your own vine, reaching for the sky, emerging out of the dirt, up the trellis, and you grow even more grapes...</div><div><br /></div><div><i>He did a much better job of explaining it! </i></div><div>I'll try ending with a poem, as many #SOL writers have modeled doing so...</div><div><br /></div><div><b>A</b> misstep leads to a</div><div><b>Broken</b> frosted pane we take down due to its sharp edges and </div><div><b>Light</b> beams blast from the </div><div><b>Fixture</b> upon the wall - no more sheltering of the light that now </div><div><b>Shines</b> farther than it did before... signaling </div><div><b>Brighter</b> days are ahead - for me and for those that can be reached by this light.</div><div><br /></div><div><i>Interesting... I ended up writing that backwards... </i></div><div><i><br /></i></div><div>When is a time you've been "broken" and have come back "brighter"?</div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyGNq-3z5kL-hR9XJJKToc4K2WKgCyKbvt2gvBYsFsPBGaRuEl99bYdDvEMGrWQvtRt1GFBBWXR788uXGj-uecY9dr9D0abDwhddYhJ6QfrYwDNP_tUrr5jKNM5-AL03fY1YDz0nJhND5a-moyi1vdpRgSuXHoB72gY9ap8JVWESgkaANxYzht8K_cSqU/s200/11454297503_e27946e4ff_h.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="200" data-original-width="200" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyGNq-3z5kL-hR9XJJKToc4K2WKgCyKbvt2gvBYsFsPBGaRuEl99bYdDvEMGrWQvtRt1GFBBWXR788uXGj-uecY9dr9D0abDwhddYhJ6QfrYwDNP_tUrr5jKNM5-AL03fY1YDz0nJhND5a-moyi1vdpRgSuXHoB72gY9ap8JVWESgkaANxYzht8K_cSqU/s1600/11454297503_e27946e4ff_h.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://twowritingteachers.org/challenges/" style="background-color: white; color: #cc6611; font-family: Lora, Garamond, serif; font-size: 13px; font-style: italic; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Head over to Two Writing Teachers for more slice of life stories.</a></div><br /><i><br /></i></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-32838284780193346052024-02-19T09:25:00.002-06:002024-02-19T09:25:29.832-06:00Still ShiftingI haven't presented at an educational conference since 2019. In 2017, I was at the height of my presenting - and I was the spotlight speaker at the conference I'm heading to tomorrow!<div>So why haven't I presented? It's because I taught 7th graders during the height of the pandemic - many many many teachers (including myself - in bits) were giving tips on "self care" and how to connect with students... and I was still crying every day. Many others - who were NOT teaching classes during the pandemic - had even more to say to "help" educators. I was so utterly frustrated with others trying to tell me what to do. COVID had me contemplating more... and talking and sharing less.</div><div><br /></div><div>However...</div><div><br /></div><div>One visitor asked us in an in-school PD session... </div><div><span style="font-size: large;"> "What are you doing for yourself DURING the school day?"</span></div><div><br /></div><div>I have read many books, tried many ideas, and now I'm ready to share what I do during the school day to alleviate the myriad stressors that are bound to come our way.</div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhKC-eDeFo7lOnWiMedUO0L4fiyKn1DVAcFujy2L10G7D-e17eYkBimbHrUOFoAAvX1Ia3SNXjPZIgNij5Rw3K3UD7KomFxHYaIGFo45zuKyfQKTXlRR4rD-5hyrX9ymixqaqrS3GlviUUxotxiFYIsXDUga2AOJP0S_74sTtRDU4qXteu1nLGYwrC81rY" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="448" data-original-width="450" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhKC-eDeFo7lOnWiMedUO0L4fiyKn1DVAcFujy2L10G7D-e17eYkBimbHrUOFoAAvX1Ia3SNXjPZIgNij5Rw3K3UD7KomFxHYaIGFo45zuKyfQKTXlRR4rD-5hyrX9ymixqaqrS3GlviUUxotxiFYIsXDUga2AOJP0S_74sTtRDU4qXteu1nLGYwrC81rY" width="241" /></a></div><div><br /></div>Tomorrow! "<a href="http://tinyurl.com/ShiftAwayFromStress" target="_blank">Shifting Away from Stress</a>"</div><div>Renaissance Hotel in Schaumburg, IL in room "Nirvana C" at 9:30am, Tuesday, February 20, 2024.</div><div><br /></div><div>It's not about getting outside, following your passion(s), getting exercise, eating healthy, drinking more water (and less alcohol)! Those are all things we could be doing <b>outside</b> of the work day. </div><div>What about when you're teaching a class? What about when you're in a meeting with other staff? What about when you need to answer what could become a heated email exchange? I'm ready to share ideas tomorrow. <a href="http://tinyurl.com/ShiftAwayFromStress" target="_blank">My slideshow</a> is tidbits from books I've read. I hope when I share, the slides all come together nicely. </div><div><br /></div><div>My overall message: </div><div><span style="font-size: large;"> Be cognizant of what you give your attention to.</span></div><div><span style="font-size: large;"> Make an effort to be more in the present moment.</span></div><div><br /></div><div>One thing I've done <b>outside</b> of school hours that has helped me become less stressed - I've been basically kicked off Twitter. I can still access it on my phone, but I hate using it that way. I used to access it only via my laptop, and that access is gone. (<a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2023/12/twitter-journey.html" target="_blank">My explanation is here</a>.) Since I really can't advertise this session much, we'll see who shows! No matter - I'm excited to once again share something I believe can help educators. I love feeling the passion for this session that I used to feel for Genius Hour and Standards Based Grading. I appreciate how life has provided so many opportunities for sharing my passions at different times in my teaching career. I look forward to seeing and learning more from my peeps tomorrow!<br /></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-14426262810461773462024-02-12T06:13:00.001-06:002024-02-12T06:13:05.271-06:00Super Bowl SundayThis Super Bowl Sunday, I just want to document this.<div><br /></div><div>I've saved <a href="https://twitter.com/MichaelDTubbs/status/1358527197577846784" target="_blank">this tweet</a> for three years now.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6pqoj9VgdfD0LbotWv3hTKAF-NQG3NKzHe0JhBTrFs_Q3sEFINb7OeFjC4Tll9_EMt-PBHogndBFsx94aZRI00p-SParWoparHkNBPUFIXTSpQQd3K4h8YuSUXIAvlJcib8a5XNN_E2VXvmS_eVYCOa_vBLeHTGRlzJc6OYRver1xBJYNkIAqF-qp1L8/s523/Screen%20Shot%202024-01-27%20at%206.52.45%20AM.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="452" data-original-width="523" height="277" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6pqoj9VgdfD0LbotWv3hTKAF-NQG3NKzHe0JhBTrFs_Q3sEFINb7OeFjC4Tll9_EMt-PBHogndBFsx94aZRI00p-SParWoparHkNBPUFIXTSpQQd3K4h8YuSUXIAvlJcib8a5XNN_E2VXvmS_eVYCOa_vBLeHTGRlzJc6OYRver1xBJYNkIAqF-qp1L8/s320/Screen%20Shot%202024-01-27%20at%206.52.45%20AM.png" width="320" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>In 2016, he played for the San Francisco 49ers. </div><div>He knelt during during the national anthem at the start of games in protest of police brutality and racial inequality in the United States.</div><div>I have a hard time believing that he never was allowed back into the NFL. </div><div><br /></div><div>Today, we have the 49ers playing - against the Chiefs. There is (another) movement to change the Chiefs' name - and get rid of that "chop."</div><div><br /></div><div>In 2024, we have NFL players can choose <a href="https://thegrio.com/2022/09/09/nfl-teams-can-choose-7-slogans-for-helmets-including-end-racism-stop-hate/" target="_blank">up to seven slogans</a> such as "Choose Love" or "End Racism" for the back of their helmets.</div><div>On the field end zones, I've seen "It Takes All of Us" and "End Racism" stenciled in paint.</div><div>Mike Tomlin, head coach of the Pittsburg Steelers wears a tee shirt with "Justice Opportunity Freedom Equality."</div><div><br /></div><div>Yet one man lost his career because he knelt during a song.</div><div>And, as a nation, we're still struggling every day with hate.</div></div><div><br /></div><div>I choose to vote for those who include everyone.</div><div>I choose to share all different perspectives / authors with my 7th graders.</div><div>I choose to support those conversations that help me and others learn from each other.</div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-73140813844146020332024-02-05T05:47:00.006-06:002024-02-05T05:47:43.887-06:00Spin It to Win It Show & TellI love getting ideas from teachers on TikTok.<div><br /></div><div>The Spin It to Win It idea is from Monica Genta (@monicagentaed), and I explain it to my students <a href="https://www.wevideo.com/view/3290488362" target="_blank">in this video</a>. Monica's podcast is <a href="https://monicagenta.com/podcast/spin/" target="_blank">here</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>My last class - who has figured out how a few things that helped them win the monthly contest this month - chose "show and tell" for their reward. We dedicated 20 of our 80 minutes to the end of class Friday for this event. I had no idea who would want to show something, and I was pleasantly surprised at how it went!</div><div><br /></div><div>One of my (mostly) quiet students shared some awards/ribbons for robotics and karate - I could tell he was proud, and many students were impressed.</div><div><br /></div><div>Three of my social students (sort of) got a routine together, along with snazzy hats and music coming from a stuffed monkey, and then they did a "fit check." EVERY student in class was smiling and/or giggling. How fun, and how great they were able to enjoy the spotlight!</div><div><br /></div><div>And then... "The beast" showed up... One parent dropped off their son's bearded dragon, Dino, and he stole the show. Luckily for me, the beast doesn't walk fast, has no fur, didn't poop (I hear it's terribly stinky), and was able to be kept in a shoebox until the end of the next period.</div><div><br /></div><div>If I were able to share students' smiles, I would - I think we all enjoyed those precious 20 minutes. I don't think Dino would mind being in this post, so...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDHz6cCy7hiNW_PsYhmKXF4_scHX8qwLrscdJDC8QczO5-udcThBOxOkj1VlYA_DdABwv1GnCu8WMkXq4gAXA-F5hAE4f57FaYrfEwr_bGX67F-LtFrV1QSgeYWtIa2kybM0xQdCTvKQJEc24zlYsDuFGvWHEs0_4exrHsFGEC4055DVEPcvzsNdYeFUk/s2532/IMG_0796.PNG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2532" data-original-width="1170" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDHz6cCy7hiNW_PsYhmKXF4_scHX8qwLrscdJDC8QczO5-udcThBOxOkj1VlYA_DdABwv1GnCu8WMkXq4gAXA-F5hAE4f57FaYrfEwr_bGX67F-LtFrV1QSgeYWtIa2kybM0xQdCTvKQJEc24zlYsDuFGvWHEs0_4exrHsFGEC4055DVEPcvzsNdYeFUk/w185-h400/IMG_0796.PNG" width="185" /></a></div><br /><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEj5cn8KY9jCojDQMna2lXXKfcSgOmDx4-4pDrhTA-L7S8wq1zWRC5uFaRl5X05rlk8hXpnymZmI8tnmZEb-dz5eI8r9GHh3DiWAnnwHJjl9x7RGV-fbJXdi5GUYyU7_KyyaXxEYfYnAamwb-vRGnAJcOBBOVPxH5Yz16vOfIvN5-1aq3kj54n_lqJYhU2c" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="200" data-original-width="200" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEj5cn8KY9jCojDQMna2lXXKfcSgOmDx4-4pDrhTA-L7S8wq1zWRC5uFaRl5X05rlk8hXpnymZmI8tnmZEb-dz5eI8r9GHh3DiWAnnwHJjl9x7RGV-fbJXdi5GUYyU7_KyyaXxEYfYnAamwb-vRGnAJcOBBOVPxH5Yz16vOfIvN5-1aq3kj54n_lqJYhU2c=w200-h200" width="200" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://twowritingteachers.org/challenges/" style="background-color: white; color: #cc6611; font-family: Lora, Garamond, serif; font-size: 13px; font-style: italic; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Head over to Two Writing Teachers for more slice of life stories.</a></div><br /></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-77359556780703591902024-01-29T05:39:00.000-06:002024-01-29T05:39:00.925-06:00Why would I want more stress?I moved my apps around on my phone on January 1, trying to not play so many pointless games. I'll still do the Wordle and Connections game with my husband every night, and I still do three small exercises on my Elevate app, but the Blockudoku, Fishdom and Puzzledom are largely based on luck of what pieces come up next. I was still playing Nonogram and Sudoku for a bit, but even those became easy for me. So I relocated them all together in one bundle of apps and labeled it "WRITE INSTEAD." And here I am!<div><br /></div><div>Sadly, I'm still looking for a better game. One that helps me learn or helps me become more intelligent somehow. I'm still on TikTok about once a day, and here was an ad for a game that popped up on my feed:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJGUqxiU4_TY4U2ATcCV-Q_DVljhj4QkiKXPiE3a0TNQ3j9wGGRWJHKdRxqXxsW7kXl-Igpvy-vsJBfEbPklO6YeD-QGAyKqFma39GOfSsMCIdm-FNjXh1oO4g3XS8KlI2_ERflwVG_XvaKAtxBCLuySPVPhT08cnVOGlnvzvEMIdxEkEISz4Tl5X3KQo/s2532/IMG_0589.PNG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2532" data-original-width="1170" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJGUqxiU4_TY4U2ATcCV-Q_DVljhj4QkiKXPiE3a0TNQ3j9wGGRWJHKdRxqXxsW7kXl-Igpvy-vsJBfEbPklO6YeD-QGAyKqFma39GOfSsMCIdm-FNjXh1oO4g3XS8KlI2_ERflwVG_XvaKAtxBCLuySPVPhT08cnVOGlnvzvEMIdxEkEISz4Tl5X3KQo/s320/IMG_0589.PNG" width="148" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6P1bfZcjoI1mKbMmqP13rQn7E6LPzMJi8B-6ufRV4o3qekgIf_iv9KerP0cfm90-sTNk6GM1YTrCLRP0tpNAG-sw9jKwXiMABerg4hwyQJQa493VwKvvYfEh7Rw8x8S2qS6tlhH93JXOm5JjCxZGqtZu7DGXyDH04q32P9aSxEQH-x2FeAAGLM7Iu_v8/s2532/IMG_0590.PNG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2532" data-original-width="1170" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6P1bfZcjoI1mKbMmqP13rQn7E6LPzMJi8B-6ufRV4o3qekgIf_iv9KerP0cfm90-sTNk6GM1YTrCLRP0tpNAG-sw9jKwXiMABerg4hwyQJQa493VwKvvYfEh7Rw8x8S2qS6tlhH93JXOm5JjCxZGqtZu7DGXyDH04q32P9aSxEQH-x2FeAAGLM7Iu_v8/s320/IMG_0590.PNG" width="148" /></a></div></div><div><br /></div><div>The two pics are the same game. (The videos came one after the other.) As I'm preparing to share "Shifting Away from Stress" at IDEACon in February, I wonder... isn't this game causing <b>more</b> stress? Shouldn't we be "playing" games instead of stressing ourselves out? Why would you want to play something that gives you anxiety? What a terrible advertisement.</div><div><br /></div><div>So... the apps I used the most this month on my phone are Duolingo, Babbel, Calm, and, of course, TikTok - but I have a time limit on that one. 😉 I have my family and friends, my walks, my books, my journals, and my blog for when I know I need to be off my phone. Here's to more of this in 2024!</div><div><br /></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjGb4kF3WVRPNA4mhIjbZBTeT9jJqcynklX5waVVh64nTePZ3iX-EBMI-ZowO-sLFr7MTyOfyOBIIalfsv8ug7PCgKvZnw-bVyW_-yF0Zhb0Ky5cAx5sJ4J6tpW9vKvcrG3-vLfqCOkhL-EpGiHcv-uHQ7aWodvLak3RYcrWvC-J7xyfNl-fdXJVYXjsWs" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="200" data-original-width="200" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjGb4kF3WVRPNA4mhIjbZBTeT9jJqcynklX5waVVh64nTePZ3iX-EBMI-ZowO-sLFr7MTyOfyOBIIalfsv8ug7PCgKvZnw-bVyW_-yF0Zhb0Ky5cAx5sJ4J6tpW9vKvcrG3-vLfqCOkhL-EpGiHcv-uHQ7aWodvLak3RYcrWvC-J7xyfNl-fdXJVYXjsWs=w200-h200" width="200" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://twowritingteachers.org/challenges/" style="background-color: white; color: #cc6611; font-family: Lora, Garamond, serif; font-size: 13px; font-style: italic; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Head over to Two Writing Teachers for more slice of life stories.</a></div><br /><br /></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-4118060924867142022024-01-23T19:29:00.003-06:002024-01-23T19:29:22.278-06:00The Only Thing I Can Control...I've been reading at least one "self-help" type book a month since the fall of 2020. I've been trying to apply the myriad lessons to my teaching life. I keep thinking I've simplified them, to make them easier to remember, but none have really stuck with me... yet.<div><br /></div><div>This week, this is my focus: </div><div> I will not let a 12-year-old's words or actions dictate what I say or how I act.</div><div><br /></div><div>I re-read <a href="https://georgecouros.ca/blog/its-often-not-about-you/" target="_blank">a blog post from George Couros</a>, and the line that got to me was, "Never let an 8-year-old ruin your day." Yup. And how do they ruin my day? I LET them.</div><div><br /></div><div>You might think this is common sense. If so, you've probably never taught middle schoolers. If you've taught them, you KNOW how difficult it can be to snap at them, to yell, to grit your teeth and say something that you'll probably regret later. Only to feel like crap afterwards, knowing you weren't your best self. The pot can only hold so much steam before it blows, and 12-year-olds know how to push all your buttons. So this is my goal this week: to not let a 12-year old's words or actions dictate what I say or how I act. The ONLY thing I can control is what I think. (I'm learning this from reading about and trying to practice Stoicism.) The next thing I can (usually) control is how I act.</div><div><br /></div><div>I still have my "<a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2023/11/pause-button.html" target="_blank">pause button</a>," and I'm going to use it.</div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiFZ7jbC5i8gTaQsArBuzuN3xEz9vRUWhGLGAhPMC-GOoUcApE33KS_OQaek7cYfQOgGAhR_T_WUqQTJSXAM9aa9qOfNoM_sIjm0o6tqa_1S6QWxbrSiVRGwJBnA6rvOGEs5BaE1RL5UM8kcU1i9yAY_pVIdfSKQAkOLjIlnYjsH3RWh5lc80cXmL-b_xw" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="320" data-original-width="238" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiFZ7jbC5i8gTaQsArBuzuN3xEz9vRUWhGLGAhPMC-GOoUcApE33KS_OQaek7cYfQOgGAhR_T_WUqQTJSXAM9aa9qOfNoM_sIjm0o6tqa_1S6QWxbrSiVRGwJBnA6rvOGEs5BaE1RL5UM8kcU1i9yAY_pVIdfSKQAkOLjIlnYjsH3RWh5lc80cXmL-b_xw" width="179" /></a></div><br /></div><div>Here's a snippet of how I did during one instance in one class yesterday... </div><div> We'd been reading quietly (a slice of Heaven for me), and one student had been "in the bathroom" for ten minutes. When he returned, he shouted, "Mrs. Kirr! I was walking down the hall and some boy called me Black!" Many of the kids laughed. He loves to get people laughing.</div><div> I closed my eyes. I took a breath. I looked at him. I said quietly, "If you'd like to report this, you may head to the office. If not, you may sit down and read quietly."</div><div> "But Mrs. Kirr! I am NOT Black! I don't like that he called me that!"</div><div> I repeated quietly, "If you'd like to report this, you may head to the office. If not, you may sit down and read quietly."</div><div> I don't know how many times I repeated this. Maybe two more times? When I shifted to go get a yellow sticky note as a warning (before writing this incident in a form we've been using - <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2023/11/weve-got-plan-this-year.html" target="_blank">see this post</a>), he went to sit down. The rest of the kids got back to reading. I felt proud of myself.</div><div><br /></div><div>And today...</div><div> Once again, we'd been reading quietly (a slice of Heaven for me), and one student was tickling another student. The other student laughed, or I wouldn't have even noticed. I quietly told him to get back to his seat. "But I thought it was free seating today! Why do I have to go back to my seat! I didn't do anything! I'm reading, Mrs. Kirr!" I quietly pointed to his chair. "It's not fair! I wasn't doing anything! Why doesn't anyone else have to move! It's not fair!" I quietly pointed to his chair. </div><div> When he finally went to his chair, I whispered, "I'll answer your question now that you're here. You were tickling ___ and we're supposed to be reading."</div><div> "I wasn't tickling him! I was getting something off his neck!" he "whispered" back.</div><div> I quietly responded with, "And you were supposed to be reading." And then I walked away with my book. After a few more huffs and puffs, he opened his own book.</div><div><br /></div><div>I don't like getting riled up by an outright lie or a made-up story.</div><div>I know I can't win an argument with a 12-year-old.<br />I like how I feel when I stay calm and simply repeat myself.</div><div>I like how these instances are over fairly quickly, and I feel like they're small but mighty "wins."</div><div>I hope this lesson will stick with me.</div><div><br /></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiApDFHKLwFg_EGV1sJqMiDEhsoy_V0pDfzgqVIBIIxYA8FlMZ0Yf5ehblOeFLdpJBID6yHJ5VtiBdGfBwrQsayH_CSKCQP8PnhwjOAcOTNEJyOBlyrWokE_o36NjoBWsYECA_PdwfmT7GJ5ibzWs-OVu-Pjr2qKUWlV0v6szJ0oK6aUxp6vxcYaI1VTjc" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="200" data-original-width="200" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiApDFHKLwFg_EGV1sJqMiDEhsoy_V0pDfzgqVIBIIxYA8FlMZ0Yf5ehblOeFLdpJBID6yHJ5VtiBdGfBwrQsayH_CSKCQP8PnhwjOAcOTNEJyOBlyrWokE_o36NjoBWsYECA_PdwfmT7GJ5ibzWs-OVu-Pjr2qKUWlV0v6szJ0oK6aUxp6vxcYaI1VTjc=w200-h200" width="200" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://twowritingteachers.org/challenges/" style="color: #cc6611; font-family: Lora, Garamond, serif; font-size: 13px; font-style: italic; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Head over to Two Writing Teachers for more slice of life stories.</a></div><br /><br /></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-33040636714760313202024-01-16T06:54:00.002-06:002024-01-18T18:24:35.068-06:00Slice of Life - SleddingI've never sledded (or is it just "sled" ??) down a hill before. Hubby and I realized this about a month or so ago. Last night, he gave me an early birthday present - a red sled!! <div><br /></div><div>We're heading to a hill today after eLearning ends (around 1pm). I'm excited. I'm nervous. I'm a bit frightened! I know I'll be fine, and I'm looking forward to it. </div><div><br /></div><div>I'll add a photo of my not-quite-51-year-old self (on a sled!) later today. For now, it sits in the dining room... waiting for me to pull it up its first hill.<br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh69VkUuX_Rx1pkUGN-307twjb-ciQ06G_Eae961xxXqdTZKv-DhQ2OlNvOZ4T43JfElWJD_clEZaKpVm8qh0TKoQhiH1Q8ra2RM2afE56rEu1z24uvIwJVMy87dqeiktWzytONz16yo6wLLdxxpyf4rOHbzrwWGqkWzKpFtJXBqZOzUWYiHfSEiFMrCeE/s4032/IMG_0600.HEIC" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh69VkUuX_Rx1pkUGN-307twjb-ciQ06G_Eae961xxXqdTZKv-DhQ2OlNvOZ4T43JfElWJD_clEZaKpVm8qh0TKoQhiH1Q8ra2RM2afE56rEu1z24uvIwJVMy87dqeiktWzytONz16yo6wLLdxxpyf4rOHbzrwWGqkWzKpFtJXBqZOzUWYiHfSEiFMrCeE/s320/IMG_0600.HEIC" width="240" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">UPDATE 1/18...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">We FINALLY got to the hill today - ON my birthday!!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOkU9HRqpZ1dsLHJXSKBSJ9EdBHMy-qSBHMEycqfS7rGVecWeb4h0f1AOc6NgO1BJku441HiTRnqnG9UPds9ZFz5SkPEhU0EZnsqq1vu4ZvN0I5htmDVm4oau9PffaOP6icWHzFRpftJMbfpAWYyheOs9d-LkT61xyJwe2SkVzyKDyyBhLv0xttP4eo58/s4032/IMG_0614.HEIC" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOkU9HRqpZ1dsLHJXSKBSJ9EdBHMy-qSBHMEycqfS7rGVecWeb4h0f1AOc6NgO1BJku441HiTRnqnG9UPds9ZFz5SkPEhU0EZnsqq1vu4ZvN0I5htmDVm4oau9PffaOP6icWHzFRpftJMbfpAWYyheOs9d-LkT61xyJwe2SkVzyKDyyBhLv0xttP4eo58/s320/IMG_0614.HEIC" width="240" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjveL_LTK0qC-rweLBssmhLZS0-ixqzOyZSz4xF2G_kdjKcPcHz8jm9Dj4130vRCYekXBwA49UFlgDzefKfoC0oUl107uhJZ9pBCHZSOVamckoHxnCKPSuWGkyYkufWIbzLUNrY-GGRT9e3QbRkeZUJAEKPJeUiaS5L3vAxu2GQ00PgdGPM63AJTN5ygeE/s4032/IMG_0615.HEIC" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjveL_LTK0qC-rweLBssmhLZS0-ixqzOyZSz4xF2G_kdjKcPcHz8jm9Dj4130vRCYekXBwA49UFlgDzefKfoC0oUl107uhJZ9pBCHZSOVamckoHxnCKPSuWGkyYkufWIbzLUNrY-GGRT9e3QbRkeZUJAEKPJeUiaS5L3vAxu2GQ00PgdGPM63AJTN5ygeE/s320/IMG_0615.HEIC" width="240" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbUxwmoYga4N4g0yzRLEd7Yz9iDiKoNMgFo2TqqFYTS0flMRE46YIUu9XN8GEoSKxNgmau8EDqQWIJbB47LoFBXu5uFx_iMGjQxqj7XGbib-vis-rvsWynz0NutPSv381C63O6-zjtpacbRWoMRo1x4PXze06t4iisU8q_shxQcHwEtg8nhgh8oY9gQUc/s4032/IMG_0616.HEIC" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbUxwmoYga4N4g0yzRLEd7Yz9iDiKoNMgFo2TqqFYTS0flMRE46YIUu9XN8GEoSKxNgmau8EDqQWIJbB47LoFBXu5uFx_iMGjQxqj7XGbib-vis-rvsWynz0NutPSv381C63O6-zjtpacbRWoMRo1x4PXze06t4iisU8q_shxQcHwEtg8nhgh8oY9gQUc/s320/IMG_0616.HEIC" width="240" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I screamed, each ice bump hit my butt, I got snow up my pants when I first put my legs out, I fell off a couple of times, and screamed a bit... The hill was pure ice - Hubby says it'll be better once we get more snow. The hardest part was getting down on the sled! LOVED it. I love that Hubby gave me this experience, and we'll definitely do it again!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiK-6atLGxIoI_ettKMHJswi3Lg-Ve3c51rrHL7DSkyFPmgz-mZilYKHdgw48cUKFiWi703tcmzeBW6cPktvBtlSLt_da_oaCdxgSqJKRG3VE_Iy3TxBEB_xH7tDZf-lwaWR6Vr6VbKjObjdIPDEDNHyNxBf11PHFoSXidm4O_GCf-ynKNocDPKyziWXb0" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="200" data-original-width="200" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiK-6atLGxIoI_ettKMHJswi3Lg-Ve3c51rrHL7DSkyFPmgz-mZilYKHdgw48cUKFiWi703tcmzeBW6cPktvBtlSLt_da_oaCdxgSqJKRG3VE_Iy3TxBEB_xH7tDZf-lwaWR6Vr6VbKjObjdIPDEDNHyNxBf11PHFoSXidm4O_GCf-ynKNocDPKyziWXb0=w200-h200" width="200" /></a></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #555d66; font-family: Lora, Garamond, serif; font-size: 13px; font-style: italic;"><a href="https://twowritingteachers.org/challenges/" target="_blank">Head over to Two Writing Teachers for more slice of life stories.</a></span></div><br /><div><br /></div></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-56662884881992642292024-01-12T13:29:00.001-06:002024-01-12T13:29:17.573-06:00Thankful Thursday (Friday) Jan 12, '24<div>Who cares that I'm one day late? I'm writing for myself these day... no need to share it with educators via Twitter. I'm writing to document these days, and I like the shift. ;)</div><div><br /></div><div>Today I'm thankful for the oh-so-thoughtful letter from a student I had nine years ago. When I shared it with Hubby, he had tears in his eyes, too. (And... yikes! She said she reads my blog!!) </div><div><br /></div><div>I'm thankful that I was ready for the eLearning day today - and I'm thankful it became an emergency day due to the power outages - and I'm thankful the power outages didn't last long!! I'm thankful I'm strong enough to shovel this heavy slop we've gotten (so far), and that the snow blower works for my love to use. I'm thankful I have this energy enough to help neighbors, too. I'm thankful my attitude is not that of our neighbor (crabby!!) when the plow comes into our cul de sac and puts snow right back in front of the drive. I'm thankful we could get out should there be an emergency, and oh-so-thankful we haven't had an emergency. I'm thankful Hubby helped me with the snowperson, and I'm thankful I've thought of calling it a snowperson. (It has a uni-boob, so I'm not really sure what it is, and it doesn't matter!) </div><div><br /></div><div>I'm thankful I can put a stop to talking politics with my mom, and I'm thankful we can both still vote. There's a lot more to be thankful for today... I'm now going to print out that email and put it in this school year's stack of things I'd like to add to my scrapbook come June. 💚</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjy4MUw64le-7JRlGBhltAxCmt0pgRWWOTlwf-qV8kqfnGeL3wOq5sZvID3nO5rQ-Q8bU9tSbSGroQecWz8n5bDwZ1Ry3iQgjc78Tm-etWLbfk-PftFn57gbDOXoGf3GTsRRJaiyUA-npZEX1pGfqKLOJ5ckoijfE6vbtCAl3sburqwPsPHxNVHr3gveBQ/s2637/IMG_0568.heic" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1965" data-original-width="2637" height="238" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjy4MUw64le-7JRlGBhltAxCmt0pgRWWOTlwf-qV8kqfnGeL3wOq5sZvID3nO5rQ-Q8bU9tSbSGroQecWz8n5bDwZ1Ry3iQgjc78Tm-etWLbfk-PftFn57gbDOXoGf3GTsRRJaiyUA-npZEX1pGfqKLOJ5ckoijfE6vbtCAl3sburqwPsPHxNVHr3gveBQ/s320/IMG_0568.heic" width="320" /></a></div><div><br /></div>In every moment, there are a million reasons to be thankful.Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-2826119187386369292024-01-09T19:41:00.003-06:002024-01-09T19:41:22.302-06:00Slice of Life #1 - The first 20 min of my work day.I went back to school - with students - today. We had two blissful weeks off (well, some of us did), and we had a professional development day yesterday which wasn't painful.<div><br /></div><div>I got back in the groove quickly this morning once I went through that door to the classroom. I've often wanted to document all the things we do in the morning, and since I've decided to try the Slice of Life Challenge this year (since I'm not spending time on Twitter - AND - I want to write again, I'll try this small slice of my life... just in list form (because I'm tired from shoveling - I'll sleep well).</div><div><br /></div><div>Thank you to the <a href="https://twowritingteachers.org/2024/01/09/its-tuesday-join-us-for-slice-of-life-sol24/" target="_blank">Two Writing Teachers</a> for hosting this #SOL24...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEj_xN7rQvTpIh6Z88DWiZz80L1xK6pWW3sRExulOpW-CDM8pcPFE7N27IrXRI-RZgNQQxSCOu6m0gymg15dxxFm5CUoJW2t8jc4rz0Cja0BEkKkMhl6iH4ORd84Ut2xrI3jfbSYtdkmtqR6CkZDlELGdPJBS2k4JIpdmI4sUygqsdt3lmQKkVFQ6pnWkF8" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="200" data-original-width="200" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEj_xN7rQvTpIh6Z88DWiZz80L1xK6pWW3sRExulOpW-CDM8pcPFE7N27IrXRI-RZgNQQxSCOu6m0gymg15dxxFm5CUoJW2t8jc4rz0Cja0BEkKkMhl6iH4ORd84Ut2xrI3jfbSYtdkmtqR6CkZDlELGdPJBS2k4JIpdmI4sUygqsdt3lmQKkVFQ6pnWkF8=w200-h200" width="200" /></a></div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Put my bag on a chair.</div><div>Take off my boots & switch them for my gym shoes.</div><div>Put my coat in the closet, and my boots underneath.</div><div>Take my lunch out of the bag, and take my sunflower seeds out of my lunch (to eat during team time).</div><div>Take my kid's book out of the bag and put it on my shelf that says, "Mrs. Kirr is reading..."</div><div>Remind myself to put on my to do list: "Bring book home." (I want to read it tonight.)</div><div>Turn on my computer and log in.</div><div>Log into Google.</div><div>See that I have 12 unread messages, and deliberately do what I need to do first instead.</div><div>Move plans from the "working plans" file over to "Today's Plans" for the kids and I to access today.</div><div>Copy the same slides and rename those "084 January 9, 2024 (Tuesday)" and save under the folder "All Plans" for the kids and parents to access.</div><div>Create a folder called, "December," and add all of December's plans to it. (Soon that folder will go into the "Q2" folder.)</div><div>Turn on the class computer and open up "Today's Plans," "Homeroom Announcements," "Spotify" (log in through Google, get the two-factor authentication, it says I don't have an account, try to log in again on my school account with an older password, try a different password, get the playlist ready for independent work time), the Headspace App (log in with my school account, find the one-minute cat breathing video and press "play" - because for some reason you have to press "play" TWICE to get it to go).</div><div>Write today's date and agenda (what are we doing again? Go back to look) on the board.</div><div>Come up with a warm-up activity for students.</div><div>Change what book I'm reading on the sign outside the door.</div><div>Remember and add "Bring book home" to my to do list.</div><div>NOW I can open and answer (or delete!) emails... </div><div>Go back to my to do list to see what I forgot, then do those things...</div><div><br /></div><div>And that's all in about 20 minutes - before students arrive.</div><div><br /></div><div>If someone comes up to talk to me about something, the list doesn't get done.</div><div><br /></div><div>Maybe for my next slice, I'll try another 20 minutes of my day.</div><div><br /></div><div>-----</div><div><br /></div><div>I had a solid day to day, no less. Plans went ... as expected ... because I was able to let some things go. I was calm, I was friendly, I got to chat with kids one-on-one, and I enjoyed the pace I'd set. It was a good 84th day of my school year.</div><div><br /></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-66012983688741090272024-01-04T07:58:00.000-06:002024-01-04T07:58:04.366-06:00Thankful Thursday Jan 4, '24I used to post my #ThankfulThursday posts on Twitter... I'm now off of TWitter.<div>Since I'm going to try to reflect more on my blog, here's today's quick post. I'll try to keep them at a limited number of characters. 😉<div><br /></div><div>I'm thankful for my morning routine and all its conveniences... The mouth guard that helps me sleep and not clench my jaw, a new toothbrush every six months, a new bar of soap, deodorant so I stay not stinky, the stick Hubby "made for" me to allow me to open a hair product easier, and a beautiful bathroom we designed to refresh - and do our business - in.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRRpYyp3NtuefsWU1xDcvyKG5nXLwMxvnfllUKU9migTNwziNVYRAHIGamdwWH9a0zIO410CtaNOWOs_8s9i_o-xpN8lufBXkyYmWe0kUpvY9ySIKzrIjm67tqvC7cwRFwPgBGYsvCEnoM_p2Mbh8ksbAij1ljI0_h8KJbhTa2dRdvcfJPXcRxTDeOFGI/s4032/IMG_0513.HEIC" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRRpYyp3NtuefsWU1xDcvyKG5nXLwMxvnfllUKU9migTNwziNVYRAHIGamdwWH9a0zIO410CtaNOWOs_8s9i_o-xpN8lufBXkyYmWe0kUpvY9ySIKzrIjm67tqvC7cwRFwPgBGYsvCEnoM_p2Mbh8ksbAij1ljI0_h8KJbhTa2dRdvcfJPXcRxTDeOFGI/s320/IMG_0513.HEIC" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">In every moment, there are a million reasons to be thankful.</div><br /><div><br /></div></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-2037699167134817492024-01-02T09:56:00.007-06:002024-01-02T10:20:28.079-06:00My One Word for 2024I typed the title wrong just now... I used "2023" instead of "2024..." Then I looked back on my previous posts and realized I didn't change my word last year (<a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2022/01/my-one-word-for-2022.html" target="_blank">I kept "present" for the past two years</a>), but I'm writing this to work out what my new word will be this year. "Present" worked pretty well, and I'm ready for a change.<div><br /></div><div>I saw three blog posts in my Feedly this morning that tackled the "one word" idea. </div><div> <a href="https://slowchathealth.com/2024/01/01/oneword2024/" target="_blank">Claim Your Greatness - Why #OneWord Will Define Your Year</a> from Andy Milne</div><div> <a href="https://sheri42.net/2024/01/01/one-word-one-wish/" target="_blank">One Word, One Wish</a> from Sheri Edwards</div><div> <a href="https://twowritingteachers.org/2024/01/02/its-tuesday-join-us-for-slice-of-life-9/" target="_blank">It's Tuesday! Join Us for Slice of Life! #SOL24</a> from Jenna Komarin (Two Writing Teachers) </div><div> (The comments are FULL of #OneWord posts!)</div><div><br /></div><div>And I've received the seven days of "how to" from Jon Gordon (signed up through an email - <a href="https://jongordon.com/book/one-word/" target="_blank">here's his book on it</a> I haven't read).</div><div><br /></div><div>So this is my first #SOL24 Slice of Life post!</div><div><br /></div><div>Disclaimer: I've read how to create a word for the year, and yet I've only followed the steps when it comes to doing this in class with my students. And that's AFTER I've already chosen a word. I choose it based on how it sounds, how it feels in my mouth, and what it does to my brain and heart. I've learned I like consistency, as I noticed I'd had the word "<a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2013/12/gratitude.html" target="_blank">gratitude</a>" from 2014-2022!! My life is full of gratitude - it helps me in so many ways, and I checked it out in my posts - <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/search/label/gratitude?updated-max=2017-01-15T19:43:00-06:00&max-results=20&start=19&by-date=false" target="_blank">I write about gratitude OFTEN</a>! Practicing gratitude is a huge part of my thinking.</div><div><br /></div><div>I've read so many "self-help" and focus and attention books the last few years. I've focused on being present and in the moment for two years now, but the word "present" itself doesn't do as much for me as maybe "listen" or "breathe" or "attention" ?? could now. I collect quotes from books (<a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1G28YKSFUxY4APs0DscF7DPdpAbP72ZdE6j6NzFtbraQ/edit#gid=0" target="_blank">they're all here</a>), and from one of the last books I read, I saved this one: </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBT22KiPaZ-N6sSlhB8QwXfuRdO9xDs0PScRgj4yDWSu69-dGSpJIM0spT8tfKFJw2k2cpJVG3APr2yX_z1Dr6-6uf8Ww0Vij8bTm1-A83F2_3oN2tNOCP2S1NMexZIz0Gf9qE0d_Pv9oE6VvVQTGulE_aaqJC8V_erzt-rEjTVig3DrKhk7dW1ZPdojc/s436/Screen%20Shot%202024-01-02%20at%207.17.27%20AM.png"><img border="0" data-original-height="320" data-original-width="436" height="235" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBT22KiPaZ-N6sSlhB8QwXfuRdO9xDs0PScRgj4yDWSu69-dGSpJIM0spT8tfKFJw2k2cpJVG3APr2yX_z1Dr6-6uf8Ww0Vij8bTm1-A83F2_3oN2tNOCP2S1NMexZIz0Gf9qE0d_Pv9oE6VvVQTGulE_aaqJC8V_erzt-rEjTVig3DrKhk7dW1ZPdojc/s320/Screen%20Shot%202024-01-02%20at%207.17.27%20AM.png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div>I'm not a big fan of the word "attention" by itself, as it sounds... military to me. But attention is what I want to give. I want to give love in the form of attention. I want to give it to others by being fully present in the moment. I also want to give it to myself by noticing all I'm grateful for in each moment, and noticing where my attention is (or is going!), so I can work on keeping it in each moment.</div><div><br /></div><div>Two things help me pay better attention - breathing a couple of deep breaths (sometimes even just one helps bring be back!), and listening fully. I'm not sure if it was during one of my mindfulness sessions (with the Calm app), or if it was something I was reading about Stoicism, but something had me think about the sun. The sun gives and gives, and it never asks, "What can you do for me?" This made me think about the act of giving attention - giving that consistent and unconditional love. I've been toying with the idea of a tattoo (but OUCH?!), and so I've been drawing a sunset on the inside of my right wrist for a few days now. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi05SjcjOd9CK_PwiCjK-vaA93yM0iqHqPHeXVQqwvKb08UUF25OESCHwtmukEPqUSDMYLyuACpBaKjzV9wVZHd0XCsurI_7DvOjK0RmjOxqaDYIXB8k9YPGC4ezGoQXcmwfn-cR6YmLE4TkYOTN7Ed6DLG9S5qNNfkTLIz-_7jSTxXPGt1vFAAG2VX8p0/s4032/IMG_0486.HEIC" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="302" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi05SjcjOd9CK_PwiCjK-vaA93yM0iqHqPHeXVQqwvKb08UUF25OESCHwtmukEPqUSDMYLyuACpBaKjzV9wVZHd0XCsurI_7DvOjK0RmjOxqaDYIXB8k9YPGC4ezGoQXcmwfn-cR6YmLE4TkYOTN7Ed6DLG9S5qNNfkTLIz-_7jSTxXPGt1vFAAG2VX8p0/w240-h302/IMG_0486.HEIC" width="240" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Not just a <b>sun</b> - to remind me to give attention without expecting anything in return - but a <b>sunset</b> - to remind me of something my nephew once said to us as we were in awe at the sunset in Holland, MI, "This happens every day." It's consistent. And also to remind me that now I'm kind of (sort of? actually?) in my own sunset years. My life is at least half-way through, and what will I do now? How should I live my life right?</div><div><br /></div><div>But "sun" doesn't work for me, and neither does "sunset." They are nouns, not actions.</div><div><br /></div><div>So....... I look up "sun." It's at the center of our solar system. That brings me to "center" - which is what I try to do to myself to ground myself when I'm upset or shaken by something. I center myself. And I'm noticing more and more what's in my center of control - my thoughts and my voluntary actions... but "center" sounds too... ego-driven. I read more about the sun... "energy," "heat," "radiation," "light," "life," "elements" ... It's mass consists of a lot of gas... ;) And it formed from the "gravitational collapse of matter," which reminds me of how our challenges change us.</div><div><br /></div><div>What about "radiate"? Can an adjective like "consistent" work? Not for me. I might want to change further, and "consistent" won't help me accept change, unless I think of it for how I should act in the face of change... consistent with the behaviors that help me stay in the moment? I want to go back to providing my attention as an act of love. I want to stop, breathe, listen, and give love through my attention to the people around me and the present moment.</div><div><br /></div><div>So... I went for a walk in the middle of writing this blog post.</div><div><br /></div><div>Words that came into my mind: shine, notice, accept, recognize, appreciate, quiet, pause, observe... To me, "shine" means positivity, and I can't act positive all the time - some people are put off by that. I thought of "shine" meaning to "radiate" or "share," but that won't work for me. "Recognize" means what, really? To "know again?" I can "notice" and not always "recognize" or "accept," and that's plenty okay. I think it's important to notice without judgement, so "notice" is my favorite right now. I said "Happy New Year" to someone on my walk, and they didn't respond, so I said it back to myself... immediately I thought of the word "quiet." Like, really, Joy, just shut up. My snarky reaction was to say it back to myself? I was judging, that's for sure. But "quiet" to me is not as good as "listen," and I've already taken that out of the mix for this year. I like "pause," but I like "breathe" and "notice" better. As for "observe," to me it has a negative connotation - only because of classroom observations. Observing is great. Noticing... better (in my opinion).</div><div><br /></div><div>Yup. I'm going to go with "notice" for this year's #OneWord. I'm going to pause, breathe, and notice the sights, sounds, smells, what my body is doing (heart rate, breathing, tense or not), what other people look like or are saying or how they're acting... and then I can decide how best to act. During a startling or angering moment, I'll take this break, notice what I can, and then be my best self. I'll notice that the sun comes up each day (even if it's hidden behind the clouds) and sets somewhere in a beautiful way each evening. I'll notice the constant heat and warmth it provides - without asking anything of me. I'll notice what I'm giving my attention to and redirect it if it's not beneficial to myself or others.</div><div><br /></div><div>Here's a snapshot of the point in my walk when I realized I wanted my word to be "notice." I heard a squirrel eating, birds chirping, wind rustling through the weeds. I was noticing the steam above the water, the reflection of the trees and sun, and I was looking for the hawk I'd seen land in the trees (it eluded me). I could smell winter - crisp, cold in my nose, old leaves and maybe a tiny scent of skunk? I could feel the breeze on my cheeks, the sun in my eyes, and the quiet peace of this spot.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0RBuIY-xowA60toIJtoIdkpUg54jPk4hla2onu1eTTUKTZJpysKNwAxfDR7gocQsQjZmDVk6-0HMhdnhugNYEoY8JyxFbbDywBO6UFftTEzGdzBNiIbHCBtHKb0YIjh1kvxm8AsrkzURaZKw5kPiOzNH6bfQ3tcrngNYiPOlHcqvknTNWGTLoqfVrB_I/s4032/IMG_0484.HEIC" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0RBuIY-xowA60toIJtoIdkpUg54jPk4hla2onu1eTTUKTZJpysKNwAxfDR7gocQsQjZmDVk6-0HMhdnhugNYEoY8JyxFbbDywBO6UFftTEzGdzBNiIbHCBtHKb0YIjh1kvxm8AsrkzURaZKw5kPiOzNH6bfQ3tcrngNYiPOlHcqvknTNWGTLoqfVrB_I/s320/IMG_0484.HEIC" width="320" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>If you'd zoom in, you'd might notice the blue heron at the edge of the far right side of this tributary on our creek in our forest preserve. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTcosiE7M6AesIlQTxYjJdghbQORz247DOykJ8dsfa9t-KA2ga9R760fQ2cEn5tt4kCbTxObqdgcOt1ZM3EwlvqIJ1oaEKjIbbnlIvpqT3QKo6QRHsUvVoJhUIonorv8r4eAdmY46gazZ0NFzvsMRSanqmXAQxE58EIyj7reXyFQV4PcPPvD9oIVXigks/s1014/IMG_0484%202.heic" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="668" data-original-width="1014" height="211" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTcosiE7M6AesIlQTxYjJdghbQORz247DOykJ8dsfa9t-KA2ga9R760fQ2cEn5tt4kCbTxObqdgcOt1ZM3EwlvqIJ1oaEKjIbbnlIvpqT3QKo6QRHsUvVoJhUIonorv8r4eAdmY46gazZ0NFzvsMRSanqmXAQxE58EIyj7reXyFQV4PcPPvD9oIVXigks/s320/IMG_0484%202.heic" width="320" /></a></div><div>I've seen this big bird on my last three walks near the dam. Here's a bonus photo of it - it was about ten feet from me and didn't fly away when I recorded it and took its picture! :D</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioppQpiK-2DocTABVDEY5SzHroVp2FtgWtZK3P4jen0LmMjZkLK8Y-xyDE_oJIFEFDhrQOzMbcOhBIX0Xi9z7j4XbMoPUiQ6cH2edrjuVQa5KBjkHO6JGm0G8jOjyw6de2md-evKUBXdCV-0X7wWD2PbOZQiZ3OLvPDA6CThwOqhwjpBn1ifKGAErdUf0/s4032/IMG_0416.HEIC" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioppQpiK-2DocTABVDEY5SzHroVp2FtgWtZK3P4jen0LmMjZkLK8Y-xyDE_oJIFEFDhrQOzMbcOhBIX0Xi9z7j4XbMoPUiQ6cH2edrjuVQa5KBjkHO6JGm0G8jOjyw6de2md-evKUBXdCV-0X7wWD2PbOZQiZ3OLvPDA6CThwOqhwjpBn1ifKGAErdUf0/s320/IMG_0416.HEIC" width="240" /></a></div><div>If you'd zoom out, you'd notice the sun trying to light up the morning.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiImIuzX6ukgcLLK4Mo2nuXzr8v7Kd4FCnWY8ljmh2in9RB3dBeoC13dbw84v_hePM11u7Rdybdmc6jBIlEe-SvcVMvsHyU0MmwKKhx4aV1Y9q03TcfC67JUWtxCPibkLBV-qUs2V2nFNuhLC1jhfd3rVtoFxokBHyv0jerVnP8dsQ-IlU351MFDKbH6mE/s1982/IMG_0483.heic" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1530" data-original-width="1982" height="247" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiImIuzX6ukgcLLK4Mo2nuXzr8v7Kd4FCnWY8ljmh2in9RB3dBeoC13dbw84v_hePM11u7Rdybdmc6jBIlEe-SvcVMvsHyU0MmwKKhx4aV1Y9q03TcfC67JUWtxCPibkLBV-qUs2V2nFNuhLC1jhfd3rVtoFxokBHyv0jerVnP8dsQ-IlU351MFDKbH6mE/s320/IMG_0483.heic" width="320" /></a></div><div><br /></div>I hope to notice more in 2024. When I notice, I hope to pause and breathe, listen better, provide more attention, make fewer judgements, and stay centered in more moments.<div><br /></div><div>I'm excited to NOTICE and give attention to other bloggers in 2024, as well! </div><div><span face="Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-size: 15.4px; text-align: center;">Thank you<span face="verdana, geneva, sans-serif" style="font-size: 15px;"> </span><a href="https://twowritingteachers.org/" style="color: #0e7bde; font-size: 15.4px; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Two Writing Teachers</a> for creating a space to </span><span face="Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-size: 15px; text-align: center;">share our stories.</span></div><div><div style="text-align: center;"><span face="Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjcDVECK9zWeqJx0ijHOTXEdjpf8vQ3aeDdGEDS-P_6zKuHsdV5S33VsC0tfoPOcCpVRZFpMctM_zuhyBOTK3zqW43cTGUGnlPWMH6BLE-wHj6NmYHaZdCov-LOON9eLFSAYl_cS32f9-JFb9_5G-dvShre3g4bAKpq4BN8_gFSV-0zjfwR_iMCPP9gDrk" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="200" data-original-width="200" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjcDVECK9zWeqJx0ijHOTXEdjpf8vQ3aeDdGEDS-P_6zKuHsdV5S33VsC0tfoPOcCpVRZFpMctM_zuhyBOTK3zqW43cTGUGnlPWMH6BLE-wHj6NmYHaZdCov-LOON9eLFSAYl_cS32f9-JFb9_5G-dvShre3g4bAKpq4BN8_gFSV-0zjfwR_iMCPP9gDrk=w200-h200" width="200" /></a></div><br /><br /></span></span></div><div><br /></div></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-54530191572094064242023-12-28T07:02:00.003-06:002023-12-28T07:02:38.990-06:00Best Books of 2023<p> <span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">My list is not extensive by any means, but I need to share out my favorites from 2023 like I have the past seven years. Maybe these aren't my favorites, actually... maybe they're books I believe other people could benefit from if they read them. I read a bit for myself, along with many books I thought my 7th graders would enjoy or books they recommended for me.</span></p><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14.52px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif" style="color: #38761d; font-size: medium;"> <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2022/12/best-books-of-2022.html" target="_blank">2022 Favorites</a></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14.52px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif" style="color: #38761d; font-size: medium;"> <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2021/12/best-books-of-2021.html" target="_blank">2021 Favorites</a></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14.52px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif" style="color: #38761d; font-size: medium;"><a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2020/12/best-books-of-2020.html" style="color: #cc6611; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank"><span> </span>2020 Favorites</a></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14.52px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #38761d;"><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"> <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2019/12/best-books-of-2019.html" style="color: #cc6611; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank"> 2019 Favorites</a><br /></span><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"> <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2018/12/best-books-of-2018.html" style="color: #cc6611; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">2018 Favorites</a></span><br /><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"> <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2017/12/best-books-of-2017.html" style="color: #cc6611; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">2017 Favorites</a></span><br /><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"> <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2016/12/best-books-of-2016.html" style="color: #cc6611; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">2016 Favorites</a></span><br /><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"> <a href="http://geniushour.blogspot.com/2015/12/best-books-of-2015.html" style="color: #cc6611; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">2015 Favorites</a></span><u><br /></u><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"> <a href="http://geniushour.blogspot.com/2014/12/best-books-of-2014.html" style="color: #cc6611; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">2014 Favorites</a></span></span><br /><br /><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif">Here are the books I would most recommend from my list of 100 books I've read this year... I tried to whittle it down to one or two per genre, but I read some genres more than others! I'm not going to describe them for you - you can check out <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1095FamnhDLg7R-opF0qUQU70pD495FVNQ1sf_xQuuGE/edit" target="_blank">the complete list with my thoughts for this year here</a>. Another note: One of my goals this year was to read more adult books. Young adult and books geared toward seventh graders just aren't holding my attention like they used to.</span><br /><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"><br /></span><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"></span><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"><b><i>Biography / Autobiography / Memoir</i></b></span><br /><span face="arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif"> Adult - Eddie Jaku's </span><span style="background-color: yellow; font-family: Arial; font-weight: 700; text-decoration-line: underline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">The Happiest Man on Earth: The beautiful life of an Auschwitz survivor</span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14.52px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="background-color: white; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><i>Fantasy</i></b></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Young Adult - Neal Shusterman's </span><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">Game Changer</u><span style="background-color: white;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisVOqzK5nLojowF8AJbBYblcgqTD1t9K0pFiXAihukzWANOvk1w662qp6DkUTbJlTsPlGRFkxVy8YZQ-xd2lKwfC_OQ-Z6CWyAjE3O0AGw6CxLSs-E86WBZjFJgUWXwvKcgxAACMqYRXbUkMIoFvDw5MEdUNrtf9eHpI0M4bTNlsnqJ4bbqs_aKOb202Y/s276/download-10.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="276" data-original-width="183" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisVOqzK5nLojowF8AJbBYblcgqTD1t9K0pFiXAihukzWANOvk1w662qp6DkUTbJlTsPlGRFkxVy8YZQ-xd2lKwfC_OQ-Z6CWyAjE3O0AGw6CxLSs-E86WBZjFJgUWXwvKcgxAACMqYRXbUkMIoFvDw5MEdUNrtf9eHpI0M4bTNlsnqJ4bbqs_aKOb202Y/w133-h200/download-10.jpg" width="133" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="background-color: white; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><i>Graphic Novel</i></b></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Middle School - Two true stories.</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; 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Stand! Raising my fist for justice</span></span><span style="background-color: white;"> along with Christina Soontornvat's </span></span></span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: yellow; font-size: 11pt; font-weight: 700; text-decoration-line: underline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">The Tryout: Making the Squad Means Risking It All</span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUbGq4zI0UGzCO7KJChHiDk8BoNGGM2hkm5mkQcWZZbrLVtOdPRl2aNMkxVNJg7yYPCaQXwHx0kUfVbZdz0xa6BMnC5NCcd8c3OmMDb1ZNyhnHQ8-NmhhqF-uyQklc63Mbn_KiIUZnzGoMRsmj355gxusUdiUFKypwElHEJ1LRAXwQr2nkAMbo9hyphenhyphenSnaY/s271/download-10.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="271" data-original-width="186" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUbGq4zI0UGzCO7KJChHiDk8BoNGGM2hkm5mkQcWZZbrLVtOdPRl2aNMkxVNJg7yYPCaQXwHx0kUfVbZdz0xa6BMnC5NCcd8c3OmMDb1ZNyhnHQ8-NmhhqF-uyQklc63Mbn_KiIUZnzGoMRsmj355gxusUdiUFKypwElHEJ1LRAXwQr2nkAMbo9hyphenhyphenSnaY/w137-h200/download-10.jpg" width="137" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiovoZAuiwaneJNS9BqFhUvPedQh3gzLrYMmy527dtS5ygIP8rmSFFCnKgIF_NIURh_RYD5_KNrfUjim-EULhfFyzAzp0Z4k831hDeVR9gXfUMuR431pAtBvppyOffui_5PlNX-Xs6j33UUgjUfnCbDIgedBEi_EsvkkoQqAufc0ffWB08RblOO3tjY7x8/s271/download-11.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; 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white-space-collapse: preserve;"> Adult - Kurt Vonnegut's </span><span style="background-color: #fcff01; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><u>Slaughterhouse Five</u></b></span><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> was one I chose simply because it was banned.</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="background-color: white; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> YA - Krystal Marquis's </span><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">The Davenports (#1)</u><span style="background-color: white;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; 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I'm now going to read a follow-up book on the Stoicism philosophy, because it, along with the <i>Calm</i> app and my pausing to stay in the present, has helped me grow.</span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-XDp_prSKvfbqka3hxlU7NIeJF1G-HQtlLWptYgAC_mhy5bzkcY3XWwqJNuaJVzoFKFMyVu0ruSa4FaMB_VeZCsZpQ5Ho3OicC-UtaGBfzlOLm25bmjZn8Hgn4MAKLSVXHteyB65Scl5JmkPWu6mqLb_9ahkMte64bgbTt-uIP293LEFUFtJ7tnOgPRY/s271/download-8.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="271" data-original-width="186" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-XDp_prSKvfbqka3hxlU7NIeJF1G-HQtlLWptYgAC_mhy5bzkcY3XWwqJNuaJVzoFKFMyVu0ruSa4FaMB_VeZCsZpQ5Ho3OicC-UtaGBfzlOLm25bmjZn8Hgn4MAKLSVXHteyB65Scl5JmkPWu6mqLb_9ahkMte64bgbTt-uIP293LEFUFtJ7tnOgPRY/w137-h200/download-8.jpg" width="137" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKaeOQRUwFCJ-UP0DChQAQS1vTnfr-kZ7E5Uqhzi-O9pkgbTaCe0LVC0wua_I63ZcD4WVUdzFYrZxmQloupMAvPsmoYrEmcm1Xs3f94jXdbXYzprhMMWMXXy7UDOm7_4_8JLrA8DiuOrkDcXkTS2-DRiiNPIm_WcCXelspekGot41vcKL1mclBY4jOPo4/s276/download-9.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="276" data-original-width="183" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKaeOQRUwFCJ-UP0DChQAQS1vTnfr-kZ7E5Uqhzi-O9pkgbTaCe0LVC0wua_I63ZcD4WVUdzFYrZxmQloupMAvPsmoYrEmcm1Xs3f94jXdbXYzprhMMWMXXy7UDOm7_4_8JLrA8DiuOrkDcXkTS2-DRiiNPIm_WcCXelspekGot41vcKL1mclBY4jOPo4/w133-h200/download-9.jpg" width="133" /></a><br /><br /></div></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><i>Mystery</i></b></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> I'm not a huge mystery reader, but Robert Traver's </span><span style="font-family: Arial; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">Anatomy of a Murder</u><span style="background-color: white;"> was a fun one to read with my husband. It was MUCH better than the movie.</span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvmC8zzYHWaIQeUow9r36_QzOJ-FsDaqhTmxX9_j2OjrUIRwemOBuVHxqVs4QmvpMFkBMfRDXa5QU2SDp1r367oPr8-FqQVzKLSpzsYzP8VSgNtrx4rAm8XV8qh7wC8StYvxNKQZfZGIDyWGoWXeLIitzIwuMhPcZI4uXuMVkod32GaAYP9syftAdHRms/s273/download-9.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="273" data-original-width="184" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvmC8zzYHWaIQeUow9r36_QzOJ-FsDaqhTmxX9_j2OjrUIRwemOBuVHxqVs4QmvpMFkBMfRDXa5QU2SDp1r367oPr8-FqQVzKLSpzsYzP8VSgNtrx4rAm8XV8qh7wC8StYvxNKQZfZGIDyWGoWXeLIitzIwuMhPcZI4uXuMVkod32GaAYP9syftAdHRms/w135-h200/download-9.jpg" width="135" /></a></div></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; 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font-family: Arial; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> reminded me of what she already has shared with her readers.</span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicpk-McCd5ldNS6Q8uk0bUALNAo4muTuAngWH0iYOJU11XONcNAboEIXTVWHUq5TIod9vcVwzhOQ_2FZMWYSsAB6xGgH8NULSgPEOCr8zfwWWrZ2mfpOlhQBxr0M6SDztOFPTajsdyelp3NmfnSApqv_yZ3lASxYZcy_dj0Gm3Q2Pt7tNRIMszjHPbMtQ/s289/download-8.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="289" data-original-width="175" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicpk-McCd5ldNS6Q8uk0bUALNAo4muTuAngWH0iYOJU11XONcNAboEIXTVWHUq5TIod9vcVwzhOQ_2FZMWYSsAB6xGgH8NULSgPEOCr8zfwWWrZ2mfpOlhQBxr0M6SDztOFPTajsdyelp3NmfnSApqv_yZ3lASxYZcy_dj0Gm3Q2Pt7tNRIMszjHPbMtQ/w121-h200/download-8.jpg" width="121" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="background-color: white; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><i>Realistic</i></b></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Adult - Toni Morrison's </span><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">The Bluest Eye</u><span style="background-color: white;"> ... so grateful for the afterward.</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Shelby Van Pelt's </span><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">Remarkably Bright Creatures</u><span style="background-color: white;"> </span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Middle School - Sarah Everett's </span><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">The Probability of Everything</u><span style="background-color: white;"> - The payoff was worth the confusion.</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Alyssa Hollingsworth's </span><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">The Eleventh Trade</u><span style="background-color: white;"> was a stretch I think my students will enjoy.</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Antony John's </span><b style="background-color: #fcff01; text-decoration-line: underline;">Mascot</b><span style="background-color: white;"> grabbed me from the first chapter</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; 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line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="background-color: white; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><i>Romance</i></b></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Middle School - Julie Buxbaum's </span><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">What to Say Next</u><span style="background-color: white;"> was recommended by a parent, and it had alternating narrators that I LOVED.</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="background-color: white; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><i>Science Fiction</i></b></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;"> Adult - Nikki Erlick's </span><u style="background-color: #fcff01; font-weight: bold;">The Measure</u><span style="background-color: white;"> is still in my mind many days.</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj82OSavxNDNc_l_CxeFcedRtafe9bC6zjAH5QqJdhJaEphEOo22EcXnp6gyLGg2pKCYBAyQQRpB7ftEJDrDFCm7wv4G8Zr4nq3YIZtbjjafNKqBgJ-qvD1zTblizzQRSE1gvOhBe5BvG8Fdo0e4qUfvHpOlTi0-AJT4X4eTLFukIa5iJ3Do6EUXa_3RO8/s277/download-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; 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font-weight: bold;">Game Changer</u><span style="background-color: white;"> was a fast read! (Wait a minute... Do two of my favorite books this year have the same title?!?!)</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgt4WwYnur4ndAztxu-A2-prbm6sCqMgctFTzWOxwlcPvFBHYEhSeie5VwrV_OuviBnubcMs78fvxJsziX4AS3dPOqmhWOTXPvfO9xemrRjvkXOX7VnR0T66aIZCW1Qv3JGTTvcCnETSiI5nS6HQnuvO1wCreVeyyWvDajYsWwPJZJyZOqEY2HU3aKvn5Y/s277/download.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="277" data-original-width="182" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgt4WwYnur4ndAztxu-A2-prbm6sCqMgctFTzWOxwlcPvFBHYEhSeie5VwrV_OuviBnubcMs78fvxJsziX4AS3dPOqmhWOTXPvfO9xemrRjvkXOX7VnR0T66aIZCW1Qv3JGTTvcCnETSiI5nS6HQnuvO1wCreVeyyWvDajYsWwPJZJyZOqEY2HU3aKvn5Y/w131-h200/download.jpg" width="131" /></a></div><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="background-color: white; font-family: Times; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><b><i>A Book that Inspired Me to Write</i></b></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="font-family: Times; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span><span style="background-color: white;"> Adult - </span><b><u style="background-color: #fcff01;">Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice from Dear Sugar</u></b><span style="background-color: white;"> by Cheryl Strayed</span></span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="background-color: white; font-family: Times; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span> This was the last book I read in 2023. Just this week I purchased a journal - to write to myself... I'm asking myself for advice, and I'm answering myself. I imagine it's kind of like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy... using my own negative thoughts and showing myself what's okay (or even beautiful) about the struggle. I'm excited to keep writing; I've never written like this.</span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="background-color: white; font-family: Times; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8Ha6aFyb1rhhaGZtPbrlaFnriPiwsGCMjFDExQAQjLoJkFYSYqcZsAILKuFM9vHP70J5I1DhLofPSuhuhqn3P-u8rtf-ngrliJefz8QECyFKY96bGPMkHDb60eil2x0HYzvARVK7ALq3hDWVwbd3yL-drNB-BGCCo2VSa8VfPS2AiArXTKuS2qoIx-MI/s279/download.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="279" data-original-width="181" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8Ha6aFyb1rhhaGZtPbrlaFnriPiwsGCMjFDExQAQjLoJkFYSYqcZsAILKuFM9vHP70J5I1DhLofPSuhuhqn3P-u8rtf-ngrliJefz8QECyFKY96bGPMkHDb60eil2x0HYzvARVK7ALq3hDWVwbd3yL-drNB-BGCCo2VSa8VfPS2AiArXTKuS2qoIx-MI/w130-h200/download.jpg" width="130" /></a></div><br /></span></span></div></span></span></span></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-8074001459849968851" itemprop="description articleBody" style="color: #222222; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="background-color: white;">I'm still on the lookout for books that stretch my thinking, are written by those with different experiences than me, and are written well. Please comment your favorites (from this year or all time) down below, so I can add more to my list! Cheers to more reading in 2024!</span></span></span></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-35193930535234304682023-12-27T12:41:00.002-06:002023-12-27T12:41:20.199-06:00Twitter JourneyMy own Twitter journey is coming to an end... <div><br /></div><div>If you don't want to read the history, jump down to how I think this is going to affect my life. (Side note, I refuse to call it X. It's still at Twitter.com, so...)</div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">My Personal Twitter History</span></div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>August, 2011 - I signed up because my principal asked us to. It was my first full month as Joy Kirr, so I used that name, and I decided I would only use it for professional purposes.</li><li>February, 2012 - I learned how to use Twitter, and I started to follow hashtags. This led me to learning about Genius Hour, EdCamps, following conferences from home, and a TON of PD in my PJs.</li><li>From then on, I've used Twitter to join chats, host chats, learn about what I'd like to do in my own classroom, and help others in theirs. I wrote about much of this <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2012/12/twitter-my-first-year.html" target="_blank">while reflecting on just my first year.</a></li><li>I remember spending hours on the Twitter app, on Tweetdeck for chats, and looking at so very many educators I wanted to follow. (I've lately gone down to 30 min a day, and I'm never on it after 8pm.)</li><li>If you'd like to know more, I have documented my Twitter thoughts and tips <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/search/label/Twitter" target="_blank">here on this blog</a>.</li><li>I have been using Twitter for professional use only, Instagram to connect with (former) students, and TikTok to connect with my current students.</li><li>Eleven to twelve years later, it's probably time to be done.</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">Why am I leaving?</span></div><div>I love using Twitter on my laptop. It's much easier than on my phone, and I can interact with more people using my laptop. First they took away my Tweetdeck, because I'm not paying. As of today, I'm locked out of Twitter on my laptop, as I never finished the two-factor authentication process when Elon told me that's what I needed to do. I had to clear my cache and history to help my (old) laptop work better, so now I'm locked out, as it logged me out after this process, and it's not enough to just use my username and password. I was going to leave a bit earlier - when Elon took over, but some of my favorite people online were still there. I was still learning bits of tech and opportunities and about people, too... And I was limiting myself to half an hour a day. While I ate my breakfast before school, I got somewhat caught up. Now that it will be difficult to use, I don't see a large reason to stay. I'm glad I follow the blogs of some of my teacher pals, I'm glad I've connected with some of them on Instagram, TikTok, Goodreads, and even Duolingo. I have some of their phone numbers and addresses.</div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">How will my life change?</span></div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>I may read more of a newspaper site (instead of using Twitter for news, too). </li><li>I won't be writing on this blog to share via Twitter. This relieves me of some pressure.</li><li>I may be writing more on this blog, as now there's less pressure. I don't know how many readers I have, but when I tweet out a new post, I feel it has to be "worthy." When I simply write for myself - to reflect or to document - I am more my true self, and I can write, write, write.</li><li>I won't be sharing self-help tidbits (which has been my go-to tweet lately) on Twitter. I hope to simply be LIVING them. I'm sharing some at the next IDEACon in February, so maybe I'll continue to do this, and maybe I can even share them with my coworkers (which I really haven't done).</li><li>I won't be comparing myself to other teachers (as often). Although I feel I've learned this lesson, sometimes it still smacks me in the face.</li><li>I won't be lured into reading accounts I don't even follow. I won't be sucked into what's "trending."</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">How do I feel?</span></div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Ready. I'm so done with Elon Musk. I'm so done with the anonymous Twitter handles that feel they can comment any and all nasty things that (I feel) don't belong in this world.</li><li>It's another change in my life. I was ready when I jumped on, and now I'm ready to leave it be. I do hope, if someone pulls up my feed, they see things that could still help them - new teachers, teachers new to Twitter, and old friends.</li><li>I'm also feeling a bit old. I still have at least 4.5 years until I retire, but I feel my work now needs to be done IN the classroom. I will still learn from my students and colleagues, and I'll still learn from teachers on TikTok.</li><li>It's been such a journey that I needed at the time. I'm so grateful for the access, the connections, and the learning that came with that journey.</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div>Thank you for reading. Thank you for commenting. Thank you for keeping the conversations going. If you need me, you can find me on this blog, on TikTok (JoyKirr), on Instagram (JoyKirr1), on Goodreads <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/6593703-joy-kirr" target="_blank">here</a>, and my email is my name at gmail... Let me know what you need, and please share with me what you love and value.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnpZVlBJ0xcUangJno67Y_zoWAfCj9zBf27VJP-WmqDT3ynnRjG2je8Et5Afv-BiQnYQT0rOfP4ZvllHtYPtSgk6AExjdwybRCTXnW6XsuD-yxYZwLTEnq0E4-yxwNes3iKXLo_r69Rm0rtlvZcVAyEuiKBEfe_gfSkU5xHIIOj8gJ_qgS-mSum35xB2Q/s1420/IMG_0399.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1420" data-original-width="1020" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnpZVlBJ0xcUangJno67Y_zoWAfCj9zBf27VJP-WmqDT3ynnRjG2je8Et5Afv-BiQnYQT0rOfP4ZvllHtYPtSgk6AExjdwybRCTXnW6XsuD-yxYZwLTEnq0E4-yxwNes3iKXLo_r69Rm0rtlvZcVAyEuiKBEfe_gfSkU5xHIIOj8gJ_qgS-mSum35xB2Q/s320/IMG_0399.jpg" width="230" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-3302313501030246372023-12-18T16:20:00.001-06:002023-12-18T16:20:46.208-06:00EduWins - The Small Things<div>There is so much pain and suffering and hate and sadness in this world right now.</div><div><br /></div><div>In my own small slice, I've decided to collect and share small wins from my job of trying to teach children who are in my seventh grade ELA classes.</div><div><br /></div>Here are some EduWins from the past two months...<div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>One student said, "Thank you" for the fidget stickers another teacher on our team provided. He also put them on his Chromebook right away AND threw away the backings.</li><li>One of my students struggles with struggle... after he calls me over to help, he often gets angry with me when I come and try. I found him in a calm moment and sat next to him. I shared, "When you want my help and I try to help, but then you act like I'm a terrible person who doesn't understand, it makes me sad."</li><li>I sent a lot of good notes home one day when I didn't have a team meeting, and many parents replied, sharing more about their child that was enlightening, sweet, and funny.</li><li>Two students called me "Mom" (or Mam<span id="docs-internal-guid-e67e99fd-7fff-1802-b992-8a948e13ca94"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">í</span></span>) this month.</li><li>I was able to diffuse an angry student and allow her to chat with an administrator.</li><li>Sending a parent a virtual hug via email helped her see she's not alone. Her child had had a tough class, any help I tried to provide backfired, and I wanted her to know that he may come home upset. She welcomed any hugs.</li><li>Our homeroom raised the most money out of any other because we offered an incentive based on student suggestions... my good-humored co-homie and I will soon be putting a streak of pink in our hair. </li><li>I was able to see two of my students at their hockey games on two different Sunday mornings.</li><li>One student asked me what my favorite book was. As I was thinking of an answer, I suggested one of them to three girls that like to read together. I had two copies already, and I got another one from a coworker - they started reading them five minutes after I showed them where they were!</li><li>The <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2021/07/crafting-bookmarks.html" target="_blank">bookmarks I make</a> are always a hit. And some students even give me back the one they'd been using!</li><li>One student told me another student was really struggling. Another, on another day, told me about another student struggling. I love how they take care of each other - without making an announcement to the entire class.</li></ul><div>May you be able to reflect back and find so many things to be grateful for this week before winter break.</div></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-79571622181114917312023-11-26T12:43:00.001-06:002023-11-26T13:03:18.643-06:00We've got a plan this year.I saw this tweet the other day, and I found myself disagreeing:<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://twitter.com/FixingEducation/status/1725202073988284486" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" data-original-height="200" data-original-width="523" height="153" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-hjjYt4sx1LlRjEFWI8VQLs1CIfCGD0-_nv1OJoe6tLHOL76SpQPakCv6G42havgcQ6vAx94rop7LFC95l_YMbNvpXHFEyqNKGF_fDy_5pPmMdvyOjwogNyuKbVXqHHk3Xw5B6QIrBYPa_X1eoGfFBvNHaaz4ouXurcR_Z7CkaiMNNorFYxBHywAVOwk/w400-h153/Screen%20Shot%202023-11-20%20at%208.46.13%20AM.png" width="400" /></a></div><br /><div>If I'd seen it in May, I would've most likely agreed.</div><div><br /></div><div>HOWEVER... one of our six teams (we currently have two at each grade) at our middle school tried something out last January through June, and they shared it with the staff. We have since adopted it, and student behavior is better than last year (at least in my small slice of the school)!</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Here are the steps:</b></div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Teachers identify the behaviors that are unwanted.</li><li>Why are these behaviors a problem? Staff comes up with reasons and puts it in student-friendly language as to why students should care, too. Many of ours include that we want school to be a safe, welcoming space for all students.</li><li>Teachers agree on ones they'd like to use/reinforce.</li><li>Share these specific behaviors - and the reasons why they should not be occurring - with students. (Our teachers made a slideshow that helped with consistency presenting them in homerooms. We then put these slideshows on our Schoology pages. Here are some: classroom disruptions, unkind words or actions, inappropriate Chromebook use, hoodies up, earpods in, late to class, etc.)</li><li>Let students know that when they do one of these behaviors, it will be counted as a "minor." When teachers record these minors, there's a simple form to fill - teacher name, student name, major or minor, check the box for which type of incident it was, then fill in any other information that is pertinent.</li><li>Let students know that certain behaviors will be considered "majors," and students will be meeting with an administrator right away if this happens.</li><li>Teachers should also create a system that spells out the consequences. Ours is 3 minors = 1 after-school remediation where a teacher meets with the student, fills in a form with them, and then emails home with what the minors were for (grabbing them right from the spreadsheet) and what the student's plan is to stop this behavior. Add to this chart the next steps for consequences. (We've got one or more lunch detentions and we've also added when administration will be called in.)</li><li>Have a practice week with students. During this week, teachers point out the specific behaviors that are disrupting learning and let students know that those would be considered "minors."</li><li>Once the next week begins, teachers fill out a form for each minor.</li><li>The responses for the form go onto a spreadsheet teachers can see, and it magically (I didn't create it - it's magic to me) adds up the minors in another sheet. For us, the number is highlighted once it hits three minors for one student.</li><li>During our team time, we decide which of us is going to sit with that student after school to fill out the reflection form with next steps.</li></ul></div><div>One thing that's great about this - parents see the exact behaviors their child is doing. Ex: <i>Student</i> shut off another student's Chromebook during work time... or ... During quiet independent reading time, <i>student</i> shouted "Skibbity toilet!" etc., etc., etc.</div><div>Another great thing about this - ANY staff can issue a minor.</div><div>One more? Administration is also documenting the majors, and the fact that parents were called.</div><div>Let's add one more benefit - most of our "what not to dos" are clear. Was that a disruption to the class? Yup. Did you come in after the bell? Yup. Most (no, not all) seventh graders own up to their actions.</div><div><br /></div><div>We had three "heavy hitters" on our team last quarter, and those three have since cooled down this quarter (so far). I think it's because the parents are more aware of what's going on, and the administration gets involved after a certain amount of minors. Of course, other students who didn't pop last quarter are now getting minors and staying for remediations this quarter, and now we're hoping to get off-team staff to help with the after-school remediations.</div><div><br /></div><div>When I first heard of this, my worry was the time that we'd need to spend after school with kids. I found out at the end of the quarter that I issued the most "minors" for my team. (At least five were from when I had a substitute... And maybe it's harder for some students to behave during an 80-min class even if I mix up quiet sitting and louder movement times??) I've also done my fair share of remediation meetings. It hasn't been terrible. It's actually nice to have the time to sit with the child who is great one-on-one and just has time with impulsivity when their friends are around as an audience.</div><div><br /></div><div>As I write this, I think of Sebastian in <i>The Little Mermaid</i>... "<a href="https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/d509f645-71ad-4e54-828a-72230132728a" target="_blank">If you want someting done, you've got to do it yourself.</a>" Our teachers had been asking for a laid-out-easy-to-follow discipline plan since at least January of 2021. I'm thankful for the staff at our school who created this, implemented a trial period, and then shared it with our entire school. We voted to use it, and I'm so excited we've got a system in place that both students and staff can use!</div><div><br /></div><div>P.S. I loved <a href="https://www.ascd.org/el/articles/whats-behind-the-rise-in-problem-behavior-it-could-be-cognitive" target="_blank">this article from ASCD</a> about how student behaviors could be cognitive in nature...</div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-37484734453982884092023-11-11T13:27:00.001-06:002023-11-11T13:27:37.145-06:00Pause ButtonI need a pause button for my school life.<div><br /></div><div>Hubby and I were listening to a sports TV show, and the two hosts were bickering back and forth. This was on a Friday evening, and my patience had run low. I took the remote, pointed it at the television, and clicked the pause button. I sighed, and I realized as I told Hubby, "I need one of these at work."</div><div><br /></div><div>I've gotten better at pausing during the school day. Before school, I may listen to a minute of the HeadSpace app and just breathe five deep breaths. During my lunch period, I make sure I stop working for a bit and listen well to my peers/friends. After school, for sure, I sit down with Hubby (outside - ahhhh), we share our day, and then sometimes I just sit and soak up the sights and sounds around me.</div><div><br /></div><div>There are times, however, when I react (poorly - not my best self, that's for sure) at school. It's happened twice this year - both times on a Friday afternoon - when I get so worked up, my blood pressure rises, my patience goes out the window, and I'm close to tears on my way home solely because of interactions in my last class. I've noticed it's usually when one child (or two or three in that class) keeps talking back to me about something they're upset about. I KNOW I won't "win" that discussion / power struggle. I've been reminded of it many times - from experience, from the awesome behavior book <u>Running the Room</u> (Tom Bennett), from another book <u>Pause, Ponder, and Persist in the Classroom</u> (Julie Schmidt Hasson), from the professional development I attended ("The more you yak, the worse they act..."), from MORE experience... and yet STILL... sometimes a seventh grader has me wrapped around their finger and I fall for it - AGAIN. </div><div><br /></div><div>I just made myself a pause button. I put a button on the top of my ID tag.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFftnk9uzQHeAdTUEjDkkjl7XX7fVosd8A82E69gT9iYqa_IKlDLgBVw6YFBVelSzOj5zCnfvVzdA6yTMKrzUFljyu4h4acXpm8-rCpUyX5D8fKh4oDYdY9TuObxb7vFVP_OGmxNd9aR07nKfW2yaYX7eyHlR6qXteuco4i3q8pQ6lPJqrIgfkY4UX_iQ/s3167/IMG_0103.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3167" data-original-width="2354" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFftnk9uzQHeAdTUEjDkkjl7XX7fVosd8A82E69gT9iYqa_IKlDLgBVw6YFBVelSzOj5zCnfvVzdA6yTMKrzUFljyu4h4acXpm8-rCpUyX5D8fKh4oDYdY9TuObxb7vFVP_OGmxNd9aR07nKfW2yaYX7eyHlR6qXteuco4i3q8pQ6lPJqrIgfkY4UX_iQ/s320/IMG_0103.JPG" width="238" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>At least half of us (me) in the discussion/argument will pause. It's all I can control.</div><div><br /></div><div>When I do take that pause, I will close my eyes, take a deep breath, and either walk away from the situation or let the student know we'll continue the discussion later if necessary.</div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-43537096349611225972023-08-26T13:43:00.003-05:002023-09-20T05:33:23.440-05:00A Glimpse......into my first full week at the start of my 29th year...<div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>A girl in the hallway helped another student in the hallway get to her class.</li><li>A new student said "gracias" to me when I was able to use some Spanish to help her with her locker combination. (We've since talked a teeny bit more - C'mon, Duolingo - get me to conversational level!) She did chuckle when I muttered, "Algun dia..."</li><li>Student to another student: "There's no proof that anyone walked on the moon." My thoughts: <i>Oh no. Not again.</i></li><li>One student walked across the room. Another took her Hokki stool. She complained. I said it was hers - she was sitting on it a minute ago. She said to the student who took it, "What am I supposed to do, glue it to my butt?" </li><li>When I called on one student, he replied, "Arf." This happened three times in one class. It hasn't happened again after that (yet).</li><li>We have very few Black students. One of mine was sharing favorite breakfast foods, and then added, "...and of course, watermelon." As the other students said, "That's a stereotype," I took a deep breath. Then they all looked to see how I'd respond. I said, "I have to stop class right here. I do not think ___ meant any harm towards anyone here, but that type of stereotyping is not allowed in this class. I don't want anyone to say anything that could make another student feel uncomfortable or unsafe in any way." He quickly apologized, and we moved on.</li><li>This same student needed a book because they forgot theirs at home. They went to my nonfiction books and found Kareem Abdul-Jabbar's autobiography. They asked me who the author was. I said, "Kareem Abdul-Jabbar." I loved the look of surprise - and pride - on their face.</li><li>I stand by my door during passing periods. A student who (I'll just say it) hated me last year walked past me in the hallway, shouting, "ELA is the worst class ever!" I had been smiling at the time, so I forced myself to laugh (trying to put it off as if I hadn't heard him and was laughing at something someone else in the hallway said). As I was forcing a laugh, a real laugh came, because the first one was contagious and I just thought it was a crazy situation that I was pretending to laugh - all around, middle school is a crazy situation anyway.</li><li>One teacher put cold Diet Cokes on other teachers' desks in the morning with a note about having a "good day."</li><li>On "Book-Trailer Tuesday," I heard from one student, "Wait... books have trailers?" In another class, a different student said, "We've had book trailers since second grade."</li><li>One student was choosing which notebook to keep out for this quarter. He quietly used the "Eeenie meenie miney moe" rhyme. I encouraged him to find a new way to choose next time, as that rhyme has racist origins.</li><li>Two students (with lots of energy) channeled their energy into sharing their silly and creative quick writes (choice writing in 5 min) with the class.</li><li>We started talking about the behavior system for the school year, and as students started asking questions (EX: What if someone ...), I let them know I don't play the "What If" game.</li><li>I'm still giving out a balloon for birthdays. The birthday girl blew hers up while I was reading two chapters from <u>Ghost Boys</u> for our First-Chapter Friday, and as she was very quietly and appropriately playing with it, it popped. After the shock, students looked to me. "Balloons pop sometimes," is all I said, and I kept reading (and they let me).</li><li>A quiet student shared with me, "I liked that first chapter."</li><li>A student is reading aloud one of our writing prompts: "You have just finished your first full week of 7th grade..." The rest of the class claps!</li><li>During plan time, my co-planner friend was adding speech bubbles to photos of kids reading that she's putting into our slideshow for the next day... she's got this wicked laugh because she knows the students will laugh and will like seeing them.</li><li>EIGHT students shared their writing today in front of the entire class.</li><li>One student took out headphones and said, "I still have them from last year." I replied, "That's great you took care of them." A (normally) quiet student added, "Until they break, they're still useful."</li><li>Student: "My brother says you're really nice." Me: "How would he know? I never had him as a student." Student: "Well he's not wrong." </li></ul></div><div>Lots of "wins."</div><div>Lots of laughter.</div><div>Lots of stories.</div><div>I love the little snippets in my day. This is my way of saving them.</div><div><br /></div><div>And... this pretty thing was on our butterfly bush a few times this week:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeVPGEOs7sYYWe5VUi8dY29MK2tcHEf2lbcY60yHwLy3V6ay3oFHcVUzBNSt2UI4uwtQ5DNozt7PjUt8Xc0_uPfWeguTj890R0_6_bGJ5zfTckdfPLBWWDnkO0R606OwQM7eOlq1tqfg9HedIZSvU1QR5-Tu2fvtm49pjW88m_QsTBU5xXnmYnjDcblqQ/s4032/IMG_9365.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeVPGEOs7sYYWe5VUi8dY29MK2tcHEf2lbcY60yHwLy3V6ay3oFHcVUzBNSt2UI4uwtQ5DNozt7PjUt8Xc0_uPfWeguTj890R0_6_bGJ5zfTckdfPLBWWDnkO0R606OwQM7eOlq1tqfg9HedIZSvU1QR5-Tu2fvtm49pjW88m_QsTBU5xXnmYnjDcblqQ/w300-h400/IMG_9365.JPG" width="300" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-51360648431209372812023-08-24T16:59:00.001-05:002023-08-24T16:59:10.592-05:00ExpectationsThe first week of school - prep, meetings, set up, and kids coming in - is a TON of work. I tried not to work at home this past week, so I stayed a teeny bit later at work. Of course, I get there an hour or more early, but I love being at work in the mornings -- there's so much promise, and I feel invigorated and ready to work.<div><br /></div><div>This past week was not a lot different from previous years... there were some scheduling glitches that we've never seen before, but even if they don't get worked out, the kids will survive. There were new students who don't speak English, there were new-to-our-school students that weren't on the "new student" list, and I have a student who was missing for the first two days who was suddenly off my homeroom list. Communication hasn't been the best since COVID, but we make do with what happens.</div><div><br /></div><div>What's different at the start of this year is the expectations I put on myself and how I respond to them. </div><div><br /></div><div>The less I talk, the more I learn - about myself and about others. I learned a bit about myself this week. In my teacher role, I expect a LOT from myself. These expectations are ones I put on myself - they're not anyone else's doing. I've only got myself to blame for how busy I may be. When I did what my administration expected of me, it truly wasn't a lot. I had to find some documents that were in various places (pre-COVID everything was provided in a folder for us - but again, so many changes happened, and we were always updating them anyway), I had to ask about a couple of things, but what the administration expected of me was pretty minimal. It was all the things that I expected of myself that were myriad. Truly, they are countless. </div><div><br /></div><div>Here are a handful of instances that made me pause this past week...</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>I expect myself to shake everyone's hand as they enter, and ask them their name. It always caused congestion and confusion. This year, I simply said "good morning" or "hello" or "welcome," and started learning their names once class had begun. </li><li>I expect to have all my students' names memorized the third day (or so). This week, I gave myself until this first full week is finished. (Today - Thursday, Day 6 - I got them all right!)</li><li>I expect to have all my decorations up and all my supplies out. This year, I just did one bulletin board (that we'll add to as the year goes on) and I only took out the supplies we'd need the first day.</li><li>I expect to share all procedures the first few days. This year, I'm sharing them as they're needed. Students don't need to know them all yet.</li><li>I expect to send an email home to parents every month, and even though that's still my expectation (it used to be every week pre-COVID 😳), I'm not going to tell them it's going to be monthly, just in case I don't make time for it.</li></ul></div><div>I did ADD an expectation. In my Google calendar, I have after-school meetings in red ("tomato" as Google calls it). Red to me means "Oooh. This is important." This year, I also put our days OFF in red. Those are just as important. Now the color red won't just mean MORE work.</div><div><br /></div><div>I know I'll run into more work that I have actually given myself, and I look forward to reflecting and noticing whether this work needs to be completed right now, or if I don't get around to it, if it needs to be done at all.</div><div><br /></div><div><div>Here's the bulletin board I'm excited about this year...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1I05RAq2zKUklhlG-6v9ASwAnMiAf8pomhXGlgwCt__yWrVVSqZL3lf5Zv61etyeg6acb2kjeeMgmK0AuQqzd5EbGFW2nqbjdrK7OpJPFWlE-apNowFPq5n_NnhaClAuw3gcNHx_nQy-8qRs1mbCwBN4GDhHpG3qg-yETSzDmRLHvQrXlh0ewElA4EQU/s4032/IMG_9389.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1I05RAq2zKUklhlG-6v9ASwAnMiAf8pomhXGlgwCt__yWrVVSqZL3lf5Zv61etyeg6acb2kjeeMgmK0AuQqzd5EbGFW2nqbjdrK7OpJPFWlE-apNowFPq5n_NnhaClAuw3gcNHx_nQy-8qRs1mbCwBN4GDhHpG3qg-yETSzDmRLHvQrXlh0ewElA4EQU/w400-h300/IMG_9389.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiif9YKQ6EwLuRDKayn62di1TMw7kXCZ6wEZzq8Bg79pYv_oHceDFKOq8gMayjdSvY2jgxgRoOqdk2m3fQEbKpnDprBAk6uNeX0Aw2Y7_nyxZp2njOUTX0_b1ah-glW06u3AvH7nlaiL6EGjw4ZC67b4Rz8ofG3TnYuBCWQm7yDN7-hosxO0fNA0-Sz2uY/s4032/IMG_9388.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiif9YKQ6EwLuRDKayn62di1TMw7kXCZ6wEZzq8Bg79pYv_oHceDFKOq8gMayjdSvY2jgxgRoOqdk2m3fQEbKpnDprBAk6uNeX0Aw2Y7_nyxZp2njOUTX0_b1ah-glW06u3AvH7nlaiL6EGjw4ZC67b4Rz8ofG3TnYuBCWQm7yDN7-hosxO0fNA0-Sz2uY/w400-h300/IMG_9388.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>I'm going to have the kids vote on the lessons that work best for them and then highlight the ones that "wins" with a different shape behind it (courtesy of a friend at work).</div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-35035331052733008102023-06-13T14:51:00.003-05:002023-06-13T14:51:21.489-05:00What Went Well<p>I could complain about my year (more / again), yet that won't help anyone. </p><p>So... here's what went well this past school year for me (and hopefully for my students):</p><p><b><span style="font-size: medium;">Student Relationships:</span></b></p><p>Going to students' games/meets when coaches shared the schedules, and volunteering for the students vs. staff dodgeball event.</p><p>Having my plant in class - sad that some students (in MAY!) thought it was fake, but I think it was good for them to see life, growth, and caring for it. (Her name was Amy, and she's a beautiful Wandering Jew.)</p><p>Some classroom roles / jobs worked really well. Tech support, secretary (next year calling this one an assistant), randomizer...</p><p>Book club groups - I'm getting better at these! The book choices were still good, too!</p><p>Not taking things personally. A quick story: a student who is abrasive to his teachers and his peers was in the hall with a friend who asked me, "Who do I give the field trip money to?" When I answered, "The office," this abrasive student added, "She's not worth it." So I sneered / snickered (feeling all kinds of things) and added, "I'm not worth your $12," and I laughed and walked away as they laughed and did the same. I laughed, covering up the diss, but I felt it. Then I thought... <i>Wait. This kid puts down all his friends - even his "good" friends (that never checked on him when he was gone for three days... does he have good friends?)... He's treating me like he would a friend.</i> It's really not personal. It's just all gut, and no brain when they respond the way they do to you and their friends.</p><p>Not responding - only repeating myself - so as not to get into a power struggle.</p><p>During the difficult moments... knowing there will be better moments, and knowing the difficult moments will come again... Normalizing them was a calming force for me. Also knowing there is an end in sight, and each day we all get a fresh start.</p><p>Seeking out time to spend with respectful students during my toughest class.</p><p>Small notes to students throughout the year. Recognizing accomplishments and small bits of gratitude.</p><p>Small "good news" notes to parents throughout the year. Most were received warmly.</p><p><b><span style="font-size: medium;">Time Management:</span></b></p><p>Kept most work at work. Sometimes I would give feedback on their writing during independent reading time - I was reading, so I didn't feel guilty about it - and sometimes I would do quick things at home on a Saturday morning, but that was really it. </p><p>Monthly updates / small newsletters home (instead of every two weeks - prior to the pandemic it was every week). Our team does a weekly blurb, so this worked out really well! Parents still appreciate seeing their child in the videos I sent home, too. Oooh! One more for this one - I only used videos, not photos, so I didn't have to add and trim any music, either. I only recorded the kids when everyone was in class, too, so I didn't have to worry about leaving anyone out.</p><p>Choosing outfits for the week... This is a habit leftover from teaching in the pandemic. Back then I had scrubs I'd rotate out; this year I just chose five outfits for the week ahead on Sunday night. I chose them based on the shoes I'd wear - better for my feet and not making that decision in the morning was better for my mind.</p><p>When asked to prepare a presentation for the staff, I asked for time during the school day, because it wasn't going to get done before or after school or during my lunch or plan time. Fortunately, it was granted to four of us during IAR testing time. My co-homeroom teacher this year is in my homeroom daily, so she took care of the testing once I got it started. That was a win.</p><p><b><span style="font-size: medium;">Changing My Thinking:</span></b></p><p><i>I didn't get any migraines this year that were strong enough to keep me home. I credit this to...</i></p><p>Quiet time. Just 3-5 minutes. Alone. Mostly outside. Almost every day, especially the last two months.</p><p>Being aware that I can't fix other people's problems... ask questions instead. Listen.</p><p>Noticing negative thoughts - mostly about what I can't control - and then being able to switch them to only thinking about the present. Why complain at lunch about the rude children in my last class? It does nobody any good, and it brings my blood to a boil, until eventually they're all I'm thinking of. I tried harder to not allow them to take up my thinking space. I should be able to control this. I didn't do this all the time, but I did it way more than I have in past years. It's a process, and I'll be practicing it for a long time.</p><p>Same goes for when I got home - let Hubby know some instances, and then don't talk about it (or think about it) more. Cliff notes version, for sure.</p><p>No work email outside work hours.</p><p>Limits on games on my phone / grouped games into a label on my phone called "Nothing else to do?"</p><p>Technology off by 8pm. Time to read... if I can stay up until 9pm....</p>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-75926512955596329482023-06-08T14:43:00.002-05:002023-06-12T07:48:03.718-05:002022 - 2023 Digital Scrapbook<p><b style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;">Year 28 is finished. I'm still learning.</b></p><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-7674965404334280987" itemprop="description articleBody" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 570px;"><p><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">So... my PD has really gone down... I only presented at my own school, and I only went to one conference... and that's okay. I was focused on enjoying each moment - or getting through the tough moments without getting migraines. This is a list of specific times outside the normal school day I either learned something or tried to help teach something.</span></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><b style="font-size: large;">AUGUST</b></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">- Fell off my bike. (Still have evidence of this event as I write this.) Then my planning partner / friend had to go on leave until December for a much much larger issue. I learned even more about how everyone has something they're struggling with that many people know nothing about.</span></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><b style="font-size: large;">DECEMBER</b></p><p><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">- </span><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Played in the staff vs. students games of dodgeball for charity. Now I can say I have an old sports injury - the middle finger on my left hand. With 30 seconds left in the last game. Yes, I'm getting old.</span></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><b style="font-size: large;">JANUARY</b></p><p><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">- </span><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Facilitated a book study for my district on Angela Watson's <i>Fewer Things Better. </i>I got positive feedback from it! I may do this again.</span></p><p><b style="font-size: large;">FEBRUARY</b></p><p><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">- Got to attend the Chicago Auto Show for free thanks to a student who has a dad who "works there." It tuns out he's the Marketing Director for the entire show!! We were even able to jump the line to ride the Bronco around a track. I decided to take off Valentine's Day for this. :)</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">- Attended a conference - "Practical Strategies for Improving Behavior of Attention-Seeking, Manipulative, and Challenging Students," and loved it!</span></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><b style="font-size: large;">APRIL</b></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">- </span><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Presented (with three organized and energizing peers) "<a href="https://www.canva.com/design/DAFdSqchnbw/JnRHajEjf3Cs0CUlZwRTzg/view" target="_blank">Behavior Conference Take-Aways</a>" to our school staff in the courtyard of our school - it was one of our first gorgeous days outside. The administration asked us to present - and then they provided us TIME to prepare the presentation (without having to write sub plans). </span></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><b style="font-size: large;">MAY</b></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><span style="font-size: 13.2px;"></span></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">- I read more books this year about how to improve my mental health, and I realized </span><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">I only had ONE semi-migraine this school year, and it didn't keep me from going to school. So somewhere along the line this year I learned how to take better care of myself. Breathe deeply when pausing to react to circumstances, </span><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">be present in the current moment to notice (and respond to - if you can) the good, and </span><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">don't carry the weight of five students' behaviors with you after those 80 minutes you are harassed or belittled by them.</span></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"><b style="font-size: large;">OTHER TIDBITS I LEARNED - FROM THE STUDENTS</b></p><p style="font-size: 13.2px;"></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">"Bet" means "yup."</span></li><li><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">Those tiny babies are still around the school - along with the magnetic balls.</span></li><li><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">When kids destroy - or steal - my decorations or other things (that I have for them to use or enjoy), I now take down the rest and lock everything else away.</span></li><li><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">Seventh graders know WAY more about stuff I might not still know than I ever did when I was twelve or thirteen. And it's not from books...</span></li><li><span face="Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13.2px;">Sometimes when some children talk certain ways to me I get upset... but then I realize they talk like that to their friends, too, so it's nothing personal - just rude behavior.</span></li><li><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">They like chess again. I bought four games with my own money to help after our state testing. Now some students play when they're done with their regular work.</span></li><li><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">Next year, I'm not going to have all privileges (being able to use the cushions or Hokki stools or my supplies, etc...) accessible at the start of the year. Each class will earn them.</span></li><li>Some students still will only work with who they knew through COVID. I'm going to have many mixed groupings next year to facilitate more cooperation, kindness, and empathy.</li></ul><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKgBs7VGcsv-Xz-5PMLUYa0QelZjrgSiyFUFf-jLxnf0nAKJ635BFgSgEeJeAFAfwKkWb2S5_Cstqo-KAr0pHH-8TsLMbt6W5uKHXOpNZ1lrcVvtqQjhPdzN0bPcKUXKsCWDp-JlAKA8mSpH4m5ofQO912CqKM30c4PS0AQx7UI1wkR5D8Mf7fu43m/s4032/IMG_8233.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKgBs7VGcsv-Xz-5PMLUYa0QelZjrgSiyFUFf-jLxnf0nAKJ635BFgSgEeJeAFAfwKkWb2S5_Cstqo-KAr0pHH-8TsLMbt6W5uKHXOpNZ1lrcVvtqQjhPdzN0bPcKUXKsCWDp-JlAKA8mSpH4m5ofQO912CqKM30c4PS0AQx7UI1wkR5D8Mf7fu43m/s320/IMG_8233.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Some items I've found on the floor the last couple of weeks.</div><br /><div><br /></div><p></p></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-75177860186053186832023-05-07T15:35:00.002-05:002023-05-07T15:35:11.291-05:00Mindfulness Work<h2 style="text-align: left;">Two More Books to Share...</h2><div>If you know me at all, you know I'm reading for my mental health (self-help books and adult fiction and memoirs) as well as for my seventh graders (YA/MG books and nonfiction how-to books). Two books I just finished...<div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjTXDgINZ7XbXTWfZ52ot630_ObhTwhhMKc_8sV9a20B_3z-RpMgVeJqkVc8Af3uM03Cuk4maOsb-kM6x7DKrTbAb02OKvWYga-So1KJPONLn-WLrZaVHViDy7HRI_h5t07IjIctLV-bU2QeDA1s5HPurEImLDwk5qC94gZFXVP9VJLveTwEoH_3B5L" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="410" data-original-width="274" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjTXDgINZ7XbXTWfZ52ot630_ObhTwhhMKc_8sV9a20B_3z-RpMgVeJqkVc8Af3uM03Cuk4maOsb-kM6x7DKrTbAb02OKvWYga-So1KJPONLn-WLrZaVHViDy7HRI_h5t07IjIctLV-bU2QeDA1s5HPurEImLDwk5qC94gZFXVP9VJLveTwEoH_3B5L" width="160" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjaVbib3OD1LCBltVdr12rrpXYCvxgDkRRj78GEOE1BgYQAPA_WXqzy3W0ou12kLBnHYA0Zjg2l7gf1LMdNRhak2J_4IuEbNSQCZuq4pN8XIQJtS17wVMsLTg_uD2pU30jygVf_A6xgqvtcyTJfo-bTIt1X8-Z8lCSh6yEzH3iebajXyQ8bUeBoc4x7" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="401" data-original-width="258" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjaVbib3OD1LCBltVdr12rrpXYCvxgDkRRj78GEOE1BgYQAPA_WXqzy3W0ou12kLBnHYA0Zjg2l7gf1LMdNRhak2J_4IuEbNSQCZuq4pN8XIQJtS17wVMsLTg_uD2pU30jygVf_A6xgqvtcyTJfo-bTIt1X8-Z8lCSh6yEzH3iebajXyQ8bUeBoc4x7" width="154" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">My notes for each --> <a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JoFhQJSWOX3aNenPHCBj4VvzfNLWLlPNnllLGAxJwzY/edit" target="_blank">Fully Present: The Science, Art, and Practice of Mindfulness</a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nyQqBLRB0E_jLGKPznPsuHRtfNFC7RlPbdaL0v01gYc/edit" target="_blank">Awakened: Change Your Mindset to Transform Your Teaching</a></div><br />They helped me get through the last two weeks of April and this first week of May. My #OneWord for 2022 is "<b>present</b>," and <span style="font-style: italic;"><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62956039-fully-present-new-edition?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=Bg3bw7cBCD&rank=4" target="_blank">Fully Present</a></span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span>was an audiobook I received free for educators through Libro.fm. I learned through these two books to not judge myself when it comes to slipping up during mindfulness, so I forgave myself for listening to it while doing the dishes... ;) I did stop to take notes when I found a gem I wanted to keep. From this one, I was reminded of the myriad benefits of doing NOTHING for a few minutes each day. This means stopping to focus on my breathing, so I can be more in the moment, and less in the past or worrying about the future.</div><div><br /></div><div>As for <i><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11767353-awakened" target="_blank">Awakened</a></i>,* I re-read sections of this. I read the first 50 pages in on sitting, then thought of it during school/work the next day. When I got home, I read them again. This is not something I usually do. The next night, I read them again and then summarized them in my own words. I decided my notes for this one would be summaries first, and then I'd fill it in with specific quotes I wanted to look back on later. Because I'm so invested in making my mind healthier, I have all of my self-help / optimism / mindfulness / joy book notes printed out and put into a binder. Those I actually read again every so often when I need a boost / reminder. I love seeing repeated ideas throughout the binder. One other book that won't be in the binder that I've been reading daily is <i><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/29093292-the-daily-stoic" target="_blank">The Daily Stoic</a></i> by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman. It's got a lot of the same ideas about how to be mindful, controlling your own thoughts, and not letting influences (from all over) change who you want to be. </div><div><br /></div><div>These two books have solidified a few things for me.</div><div><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>It is up to ME how I feel. My thoughts control my feelings. I can take control of my thoughts.</li><li>Worries, anxieties, fears ... they're all FUTURE based. When I focus on the <b>present</b>, they go away.</li><li>When I ruminate about the past, I make those thoughts worse and more concrete, making them harder to go away. I need to remind myself that the other person involved is most likely NOT thinking of those moments now and it's only hurting me. It could even be hurting my physical health.</li><li>Stop and think of each current thought. Does it do you any good? If not, let it go or replace it. Just because it's a thought, doesn't mean it's true, and it doesn't mean it's important right now. Plant the seeds of positive thoughts - you'll reap later what you sow now.</li><li>It's going to take a lot of time and practice to change your thinking. All our life we're inundated by images and words that influence us. It's time for me to start taking control of what I want influencing me.</li></ol></div><div>I loved being immersed in the language around mindfulness and controlling my own thoughts. Hearing it from one book, reading it in the other, then following up with a quick meditation that helped me to breathe evenly and put me to sleep each night (the Calm app) really helped some of these ideas stick.<br /><h2 style="text-align: left;">Calm App...</h2><div><span> This tool may still be free to educators, I hope. </span>I'm on a streak right now of about two weeks. I've been hearing the same ideas from the two books in the app (words such as "catastrophize" and ideas such as reframing my thoughts). Just last night, after I'd taken some notes about how our thoughts are seeds, I get this one to listen to before bed:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEju7UzSbzBcCWbW_HdhTMLErqjwfIpp7YGJFLYoCKXe1xtfVon-Biyg-RCeXin24xII1SENV2l8JlHfoZ-ToZnlJa1xzGTUCZmWhVd7M-FzNnuvGrBB2XQB0XM3fAo-N20OtgEKQmfv29tva7MPUoRe4bOwaA-VXlh21FC3-d34-z7hYS4HWx3qTijO/s1064/IMG_7863.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1064" data-original-width="1058" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEju7UzSbzBcCWbW_HdhTMLErqjwfIpp7YGJFLYoCKXe1xtfVon-Biyg-RCeXin24xII1SENV2l8JlHfoZ-ToZnlJa1xzGTUCZmWhVd7M-FzNnuvGrBB2XQB0XM3fAo-N20OtgEKQmfv29tva7MPUoRe4bOwaA-VXlh21FC3-d34-z7hYS4HWx3qTijO/s320/IMG_7863.jpg" width="318" /></a></div><h2 style="text-align: left;">Online Resources...</h2><div> <a href="https://www.uclahealth.org/programs/marc" target="_blank">UCLA's MARC Site</a><br /></div><div><span> </span><span> It includes a link to their app: UCLA Mindful</span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJNQ-izDhCDwQHo8Dz7Kr5eH5Z7yPmaVcZ3MOyNCd44M4P1sXC_NDKCUbBAo5bGSo9GsJ9Lvq12n5aojbXbLctSxlsR0Iwpgz1Y0MRrduO3_U0JgA2vukbtlPQ_SSV_3UEbl9vybCMGuiHVy6BCil16adHfOIIzGkgtjrzixDTTLDHLyjQWEkURSNy/s722/IMG_7875.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="235" data-original-width="722" height="104" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJNQ-izDhCDwQHo8Dz7Kr5eH5Z7yPmaVcZ3MOyNCd44M4P1sXC_NDKCUbBAo5bGSo9GsJ9Lvq12n5aojbXbLctSxlsR0Iwpgz1Y0MRrduO3_U0JgA2vukbtlPQ_SSV_3UEbl9vybCMGuiHVy6BCil16adHfOIIzGkgtjrzixDTTLDHLyjQWEkURSNy/s320/IMG_7875.jpg" width="320" /></a></div></div><div> <span> </span><a href="https://screening.mhanational.org/changing-thoughts-with-an-ai-assistant/" target="_blank">Changing Thoughts with an AI Assistant</a></div><div><span> </span><span> The questions / process:</span><br /></div><div><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>What negative thought are you struggling with right now? (You can choose or type an answer.)</li><li>What's a recent situation that led to this negative thought?</li><li>Select the <a href="https://screening.mhanational.org/content/thinking-traps-how-can-i-deal-with-negative-thoughts/" target="_blank">thinking trap</a>. (I really like this one - it shows possible thinking traps, such as "fortune telling," "overgeneralizing," "negative feeling or emotion," and "all-or-nothing thinking," and these change based on what you've put in for your answer. It suggests what it thinks you're doing. The AI here seems to be spot on - at least the two times I tried it.)</li><li>Reframe your thinking. (First it tells you - based on what you chose as the thinking trap - a tip for how to overcome that thinking trap. Then it gives you space to type in your own reframing thoughts, and it also gives you three options it came up with. You can even click "Show more reframes" !!) Once you choose or write one, it asks you to see if you can make it more positive, realistic, or helpful. I changed one word of mine - "can" to "will" - you can see my final reframe in the photo below.)</li><li>Evaluate the activity. (You do not need to do this. It's part reflection, part info for the AI, I'll bet. There is another section after that which is an optional survey.)</li><ol><li>I filled out the survey and was rewarded with a summary (which I didn't know I was going to get - this is much better than the screenshots I took)! Too bad you have to fill out the survey to get it, but maybe you can just click "next" without filling it out...</li></ol></ol></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgteprIKD59_zSoECEe_y1qLpXFcaTqys6acnYLVYeoUjUk7-wfbgEoeDCf6_TsHf4K9mJRBvM-gINp_U2eciq9Bj8yKdl-iRrOjmfuWro98hxhKslv9YNapN9xawzKYPXwSKDfCj1ZDBmz8KwD40KIbDktuQDWhvZheF7Lm9lii_vGgJt-REsbcST0/s463/Screen%20Shot%202023-04-30%20at%2012.28.12%20PM.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="403" data-original-width="463" height="349" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgteprIKD59_zSoECEe_y1qLpXFcaTqys6acnYLVYeoUjUk7-wfbgEoeDCf6_TsHf4K9mJRBvM-gINp_U2eciq9Bj8yKdl-iRrOjmfuWro98hxhKslv9YNapN9xawzKYPXwSKDfCj1ZDBmz8KwD40KIbDktuQDWhvZheF7Lm9lii_vGgJt-REsbcST0/w400-h349/Screen%20Shot%202023-04-30%20at%2012.28.12%20PM.png" width="400" /></a></div><span><br /></span></div><div><span> </span> <a href="https://screening.mhanational.org/diy/overcoming-negative-thoughts/" target="_blank">Overcoming Negative Thoughts</a><br /></div><div><span> </span><span> The questions they use on this site are simple - so much so that you don't need the site:</span></div><div><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>What negative thought are you struggling with?</li><li>Where does this negative thought come from?</li><li>If your friend was dealing with the same negative thought, what would you say to help them feel more hopeful? (<i>I love this question!</i>)</li><li>What do you need to say or do so you can truly believe the more hopeful thought?</li></ol></div><div><h2 style="text-align: left;">Conclusion</h2></div><div>Of course, I've read many more books on optimism and joy and how to be happy during the fall and winter of the 2020-2021 school year. <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2021/06/mental-health-lessons-learned-from.html" target="_blank">My post from June of 2021 about those books is here.</a> What makes these different? The lessons are finally STICKING. I was in class the other day saying in my head, "Dismiss. Distract..." and then I focused on something else instead of that worrying/annoying/not helpful thought. Maybe they're sticking because I've read so many with the same ideas. I'll take it. And I'll probably keep reading more. What I want to do first, however, is to practice meditating for 5-10 min a day without falling asleep to it... Taking 5-10 min out of my day to let negative thoughts appear and then dismiss them can only be beneficial.</div><div><br /></div><div>I will keep learning and practicing. With time and effort, I can learn to recognize and manage negative thoughts.<br /><br /></div></div></div><div>*One thing I have to add about <i>Awakened</i>... Page 1 starts on the left side of the book. This was at first a source of aggravation for me. By the time I finished the book, my mindset had shifted. I now wonder what other books start that way?</div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-26296922355662980952023-04-15T19:56:00.000-05:002023-04-15T19:56:15.894-05:00Disconnected<p>I had this book in my Libro.fm account, and it was short, so I decided to listen to it while I did the dishes while Hubby is recovering from knee replacement surgery. We usually do the dishes together, and I wanted the distraction.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEyxWTK0nZ_aZ5plUX2sMXHATkLqTxFa041f5y3j8NAT38ljM4A1MwUEsQPXBVsX0X0tSd2hXVlikCFPxCOiqIrr8fHfoT2m7tITkLMvBO4ITOoy94ewyvPvWAtBSc6UqPZHnwfz07Lll_dXNMUG8INzHlUGTDLW9YoXpr6uLa8N67065mf5HCHCYL/s995/IMG_7618.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="995" data-original-width="984" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEyxWTK0nZ_aZ5plUX2sMXHATkLqTxFa041f5y3j8NAT38ljM4A1MwUEsQPXBVsX0X0tSd2hXVlikCFPxCOiqIrr8fHfoT2m7tITkLMvBO4ITOoy94ewyvPvWAtBSc6UqPZHnwfz07Lll_dXNMUG8INzHlUGTDLW9YoXpr6uLa8N67065mf5HCHCYL/s320/IMG_7618.jpg" width="316" /></a></div><p>I've been having a love-hate relationship with social media and games on my phone. I spend a LOT of time on my phone. I thought this book might help me not be attached to it as much.</p><p>Here are some things I'd like to remember from this book...</p><p>She posed this question: "What part of your online life do you enjoy or do by choice (ex: curating boards for inspiration on Pinterest)?"</p><p> <span style="color: #ffa400;"><b>I enjoy connecting with teachers on Twitter. I haven't been doing this as much as I used to, and this may be because I've set a limit for myself on Twitter, and I've done a good job of sticking to it. I'm only on Twitter in the morning for a half hour before work, and on weekend mornings. On Instagram, I enjoy seeing posts from former students and encouraging them in their college and job endeavors. TikTok makes me laugh, and when I create on it, I feel the students who follow me will benefit from the humor and book talks. I only use Snapchat when I want to play with filters and get Hubby and I laughing until our guts hurt. This happens about once a year. I don't post or follow anyone on Snapchat. I play games (daily challenge - Killer Sudoku, Blockudoku, Fishdom, Nonogram, Nonogram Color, and Elevate) to stimulate my brain. I practice Duolingo to hopefully some day be able to have an actual conversation with a student in Spanish (and later in Polish).</b></span></p><p>And she followed up with this one: "And what things do you do only because you feel you should (ex: being on Twitter for professional purposes)?"</p><p> <b style="color: #ffa400;">I do feel like I need to post a bit every day on Twitter. That's where I (used to) market my book(s), share the good about GeniusHour, share that and my Antiracist LiveBinder, amplify other people's great ideas, and I feel like my followers expect me to be real and to share what I believe is important. I've been quieter on it lately because, like Mom said, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all," and since teaching in a pandemic, it's been harder for me to find positive and valuable things in education to share.</b></p><p>"We get to say no. We get to change our habits."</p><p> <b style="color: #ffa400;">This quote/idea has helped me stop playing so many games on my phone. My favorites for zoning out: Nonogram, and Nonogram Color. I have time limits on these, and at 8:00, all tech is off my phone (except books and Duolingo). Knowing that when I zone out on them I often think of problems at school, I now recognize these thoughts earlier, and I click the "ignore" button a bit quicker.</b></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBthVsgWI00riPJyZKM8VLBL9nQI95g68XOI0ijGlyu6yIAzFVCA9V5UseqwYzqhJQ1bXKQgjPyonCa8oYf8N59Uo9gVLxT_AiF8g3fRZ3rbrB0hLKuMLo7ttpeLBOgEICOmAaHV_0c_rer-yH4oM47HIctev-ULIWwggFM_6xpnTZjXtOofigSDFC/s691/IMG_7677.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="475" data-original-width="691" height="220" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBthVsgWI00riPJyZKM8VLBL9nQI95g68XOI0ijGlyu6yIAzFVCA9V5UseqwYzqhJQ1bXKQgjPyonCa8oYf8N59Uo9gVLxT_AiF8g3fRZ3rbrB0hLKuMLo7ttpeLBOgEICOmAaHV_0c_rer-yH4oM47HIctev-ULIWwggFM_6xpnTZjXtOofigSDFC/w320-h220/IMG_7677.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">...insert app name here.</td></tr></tbody></table><p>Every time I put my earbud in my ear to listen to this book, I hear, "Connected," which means my phone is connected to the earbud. To me, it meant "Joy can't just do one thing - she's got to listen to a book while she does the dishes, even." That fact bothered me, but I didn't do anything about it, because I thought it was a good use of my time... Another thing that happened was that while I was "reading" (and doing the dishes), texts from a friend came through. I tried to not look at them until I was done doing the dishes at least... </p><p>The author likes Seth Godin, and she quoted him many times throughout.</p><p>It's good to amplify others' great ideas - while giving credit, of course. </p><p>It's good to connect with others in smaller communities. It's even better if we try doing this OFFline.</p><p>Everyone - and everything - is an influence(r).</p><p>"I want my online life to influence my offline life for the better."</p><p>---------------------</p><p><b><span style="color: #674ea7;"><i>Yes. Yes. Yes. I want my online life to influence my offline life for the better. </i>So much of what I see on Twitter affects me in a negative way lately. The news, what's "trending" (I STILL haven't quite learned to NOT click on those items!), the replies to tweets (anonymity brings out the worst in people, I've decided), and those teachers who aren't teaching anymore telling me what I "should" and "should not" do (consider <u>suggesting</u> things, eh?). I find myself feeling upset and thinking judging thoughts, and I don't like that part of me. I need to find a way to use Twitter to my advantage again. This has me unfollowing those that don't affect me in a positive way, and taking some people off of my Twitter lists that I use on Tweetdeck. I'm making what I see more positive and a more hopeful start to my mornings. I have that control, and that feels like a positive step.</span></b></p><p><b><span style="color: #674ea7;">Since being reminded that everyone and everything is an influence on people, I've tried to look at things differently. In the grocery store, when I want to buy something I see (if it's not on the list), I consider what it's actually called - an "impulse buy." I've found myself shaking my head and passing by. When I'm in line and see more things I want to buy, I consider why they put those items there. I don't want to be controlled in this manner, so that little bit has helped me make smart decisions - at least in a store. It's also helped me to keep smiling and listening at work/school. Doing so may influence others to smile and to listen - or at least to feel better around me smiling at and/or listening to them. It's even helped me drive better - especially when someone around me isn't driving their best. I don't let them influence me to drive like a maniac or get in their space.</span></b></p><p><b><span style="color: #674ea7;">Knowing that I was choosing this book to hopefully influence me in a positive way, I did one of the things the author suggested. I tried doing nothing - for five to ten to fifteen minutes. Although I got better at it when school was shut down, this is still difficult for me and takes a lot of practice. She asked, "What did you realize about yourself?" I sat in my backyard on a bench, and after just about five minutes, I realized... I like to help things grow. I can totally use this information in my job, in my online space, and at home. I decided to try again -what's five minutes, right? This time around, I realized that I learn WAY more from my mistakes at 50 years old than I did when I was a teen or pre-teen. It got me thinking... can some of our students not be able to learn from their mistakes yet? Even writing about this, I feel the urge to do nothing again - tonight.</span></b></p><p><b><span style="color: #674ea7;">A little irony... I broke my own Twitter time boundary and tweeted these two realizations (under the tweet that I was reading this book). <a href="https://twitter.com/JoyKirr/status/1645949310079574018" target="_blank">I shared them online</a> because I thought they might influence another person to try this on their own. I'm also writing this post for me (I keep my book reviews like this on my blog) and sharing it via Twitter. If it can help one person try one thing that positively influences their life, I think it's worth it, and it aligns with why I got on Twitter in the first place.</span></b></p><p><span style="color: #674ea7;"><b>After I read any self-help book of any sort, I try to put one thing into practice. I used to try to put them ALL into practice, but I've realized it doesn't work for me. My one thing from this book will be to try to do nothing for at least five minutes each day - when I feel the pull of my phone. This aligns well with <a href="https://geniushour.blogspot.com/2021/11/lessons-im-using-revisited.html" target="_blank">the lessons I (thought I) learned during pandemic teaching</a>. It also aligns with my #OneWord I've chosen a couple of years in a row now - PRESENT.</b></span></p><p><span style="color: #674ea7;"><b>Although this wasn't my favorite book (3/5 stars), it was free, it helped me get the dishes done, and I took away some good reminders.</b></span></p>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2941630785664397334.post-6913484151288709262023-03-05T14:49:00.000-06:002023-03-05T14:49:05.891-06:00Behavior in the ClassroomI got to go to a PD session that I enjoyed - and I also got some ideas to take back!<div><br /></div><div><b>Practical Strategies for Improving the Behavior of Attention-Seeking, Manipulative and Challenging Students (Grades 1-12)</b></div><div><br /></div><div>It was put out by BER (Bureau of Education and Research), and provided by Cindy Jones, who will be retiring very soon. I pre-judged her, as she shared her age as 75, and I thought that there was no way she had been with students since pandemic teaching. I was wrong to pre-judge, of course. She had a wealth of experience, and she's worked with children in terrible situations - for them and for her. After listening to many of her stories, I realized that I had it good in comparison. Throughout the day, she shared reasons WHY children may be acting up. I won't put all those reasons here - they're good to know, for sure. For this blog post, I want to document the actions we can use to help with these behaviors. Cindy put on a "workshop" - she told us to shop for ideas we'd like to take back for us or for our peers - there was no need to use it all. Some things she talked about that I won't include are building relationships, rewards, and contracts.</div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">Two types of students who attract our attention for myriad reasons:</span></div><div><br /></div><div><b>Golden Retrievers</b></div><div> No matter how much attention they get, it's not enough. Praise publicly, correct privately. Give them attention up front, asking about the puppy or the football game. Move close to them as you're teaching. Drop their name during the lesson. Distract them ("___, what are the instructions?"). Ask them for a favor. Clarify desired behavior ("When you finish your work, you may..."). Give affirmations.</div><div> Consider using <a href="https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/10_8cPe1Td-RuY_qzGBNd3hX1Bs_dOY9k1rNhrG7cwUA/edit?usp=sharing" target="_blank">Compliment Cards</a>. Have these pre-made, so they're easy to find and hand out. Students can make their own as well, should you have a box of them for them to use.</div><div><br /></div><div><div><b>Wolverines</b></div><div> These children want control at all times. They are often oppositional and disrespectful. Praise and correct privately (or use non-verbal gestures). They're testing you. Give two choices ("Would you like for me to help you get started, or would you like to get started on your own?" "Would you like to do this now or after school?"). Use Teflon Responses. Use distraction. Change the subject. Dodge irrelevant issues ("We're not talking about that. We're talking about...." in a calm tone). Use empathetic statements. Don't take it personally and get furious - instead get curious. Discuss misbehavior later. Acknowledge that you can't make them do things and you hope they make good choices. If they do damage, have them make restitution. When they argue or refuse, say, "You do or you don't. I hope you make a good choice."</div></div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">Some ideas we can use:</span></div><div><br /></div><div><b>Beginning of the Year Relationship Agreement</b></div><div> Create one chart for each class, or combine the charts into one with student consensus/buy-in. Have four quadrants: student to student (no drama, positive vibes, one up to it, kind words and actions, help each other, share), student to teacher (pay attention, kind words and actions, be responsible, smile, follow directions, put forth effort), teacher to student (listen, be patient, give warnings, provide affirmations), and student to classroom (pick up after yourself, care for supplies, hands off others and their items, follow seating expectations). On Fridays or Mondays, go over how everyone did and how we could all improve. Choose one thing to improve upon. (I used to do this as a plus/delta chart - I've gone away from it for various reasons.)</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Affirmations</b></div><div> Some of these I thought were a bit below my grade level (7th grade), and some of them made me laugh, no less. Cindy shared different kinds of body movements + catch phrases we can provide for students who are doing well. "You are worthy" + stretching arms up and then moving them down as if bowing to the student. "Do, do, do, do, you did a good job" + disco fever dancing like John Travolta. "Go (name)" + washing machine action. Then there are small ones - the "microwave" is a teeny wave with your pinky finger. The "flea clap" is your thumb and pointer finger clapping (like the number 20 in sign language). I also liked the silent cheer - like clapping for a Deaf audience - hands up, open, and shaking. A peer of ours shared the Confetti Cannon extension on Chrome, too. She said we'll probably get pushback at first, but then students will start asking for affirmations.</div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b>Brain Breaks</b></div><div> Cindy gave us many ideas for brain breaks, and I was reminded that kids need breaks to feel more connected (to each other and to their teacher) and to shift their mindset (and their feelings about the class, or the teacher, or stressors). Ideas to use: look for hidden objects in a picture, visual puzzles, thumbs up/down/sideways for trivia questions, word or math puzzles, pen flips, draw in the air to answer a question, stand up if a statement is true, take six steps with your partner to share an idea, "would you rather" questions with a partner, question of the day, "have you ever" questions ("I have!"), "My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean", etc. I've got a book of them that I haven't used yet this year. It's okay to take two minutes for this. She knows that kids can be derailed by this, but says it takes about a week and a half for them to get in the groove and keep it to two minutes. My 12 year olds need state changes after 12 minutes, maximum. "Give me a thumbs up if you can..." repeat the last sentence I said... tell me one thing you just learned...</div><div><br /></div><div><div><b>Cue/Signal Cards</b></div><div> Create small (business-card sized) cards with cues you feel you need to give often. They may say things like, "Please get started on your work," "Please consider if what you want to share is good for our class," "Eyes on your work," and include good things too, such as, "You're doing great today," and "I'm proud of you," and you can use them to relocate students "Please take your book and move to ..." Cindy had a poster of Alaska in one end of the room - for kids to "chill out" and work independently. She had another poster of Hawaii - for kids to go on a little vacation. They can't live there, as it's very expensive. They could go there to draw or fidget or breathe. </div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b>Empathetic Statements</b></div><div> Note: If these are overused, you're probably not really listening. They'll catch on and know you're not really empathetic. Stay out of judgement, and recognize the emotion. </div><div> I am so sorry to hear that.</div><div> That must be really difficult.</div><div> I was worried about you.</div><div> It sounds like you're angry / sad / upset.</div><div> I am here for you and ready to listen.</div><div> I know what it's like. You're not alone.</div><div> I don't know what to day. I'm just glad you told me.</div><div> How can I help you?</div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b>Music</b></div><div> Use low-volume spa or classical music or nature sounds during quiet work (or Yanni, Jim Brickman, Kenny G...). Use something like "Conga" when students are up and moving around for an activity. One quote she kept saying, "The more you yak, the worse they act."</div></div><div><br /></div><div><b>Pivot Praise</b></div><div> The person near the person misbehaving... "Sarah, thanks for getting your work out. John, thank you for sitting so quietly and waiting patiently."</div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b>Regulate Ourselves</b></div><div> Before we learn, we need to be regulated. Breathing ideas: Headspace app, smell the rose, blow out a handful of candles, figure eight, hand breathing, </div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b>Teflon Responses</b></div><div><span> Don't get into a power struggle - you'll lose. Cindy said that being in a power struggle is like wrestling with a pig. You both get dirty, and the pig enjoys it. Instead, use Teflon Responses... These should be said with a neutral voice and a neutral face. If you can, after you say it, walk away / move along. Some responses I liked: </span><br /></div><div><span> Hmm...</span></div><div><span> I see.</span></div><div><span> I argue at 3:15. Come back then.</span></div><div><span> I will ponder that point later.</span></div><div><span> I'll be interested to see how that works out for you.</span></div><div><span> I see things differently.</span></div><div><span> I'm moving on now.</span></div><div><span> And now it's time to...</span></div><div><span> You've mistaken me for someone who wants to argue.</span></div><div><span> You and I can talk about that later.</span></div><div><span> I hope you make a good choice.</span></div><div><br /></div><div><div><b>Transitional Warnings</b></div><div> Let students know what's coming next. "In five minutes, we'll be returning to our seats."</div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b>Where am I wrong?</b></div><div> In the hallway or without an audience is best. Let the student know... "The story I'm telling myself about why you are behaving this way or note doing your work is... Where am I getting it wrong?"</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Wrong - Right - Praise</b></div><div> Tell the student what they're doing wrong, what you want them to do, and praise for any compliance. Ex: You're talking to a peer. Please read your book independently now. Thank you.</div></div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-size: large;">This past week:</span></div><div>I tried the Teflon Responses the most. I also used the "Wrong-Right-Praise" twice. I was able to move on to the next thing I had to do without more resistance. However, it made me feel like a robot. I know my face looks much better when I smile, and I felt as if I was being a cold non-feeling robot when I put on my Teflon/neutral face. It doesn't feel like me. It's no fun. I'll keep using bits and pieces from what I've learned, and it's going to be a work in progress.</div><div><br /></div>Joy Kirrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06221084547300439840noreply@blogger.com2